I just recently got pregnant about 2.5 months and my interest in sex has been very low. I guess it dosen't help to be sick most days. But my husband is very offended by this he thinks I am not interested in him. With our first child I was way more interested but with this one I have no drive at all. Any suggestions???
Is this a normal occurence???
2006-12-04 05:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tracy.W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Darling...I think my guy and I have had sex twice since I realized I was pregnant at 9 weeks, I am 20 now!!! I know he hates it...I do try to give him bj's...but you know those only last for so long!!! We were like bunny rabbits before I got preggers...but since then I have had no desire. He knows that it is not bc I dont love him or find him incredible sexy...he is sexy sexy sexy!!! I just dont have the sexual feeling!!! I def. help him anyway can...but I dont mind if he watches porn to help him. He is a man...I know he loves me and finds me sexy and if I was in the mood he would only be looking at me!!!
Next time you go to the doctor mention to him that your sex desire is down in front of your man...and he will tell you that it is normal!!! Then your man will here it from a medical person and hopefully know it is not him!!!
2006-12-04 06:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. Some woman go on a crazy sex drive and others have no interest at all. All I can suggest is that you try to understand his feelings too, but don't let him make you feel bad about it. Tell him there are other ways for you two to be together, like cuddling on the couch or just talking, having a dinner out just the two of you.
2006-12-04 13:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally normal..with my first 2..I had an unbelievable sex drive lol! But this time around..I could probably go with out for a week or two at a time. I'm just tired this time around & don't seem to have energy for anything especially that lol! Just explain to him you're not feeling too well..and it will be over soon enough..and your sex drive will most likely return after that! GOOD LUCK
2006-12-04 13:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by mommyof372802 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sick all the time, and I am about as far along if not a week ahead of you. I think being sick makes you just want to enjoy the times you are not sick without the pressures of sex. If you have been pregnat before, he should know that urges, feelings, and hormones change and pass, and tell him to be patient, your sex drive will come back in just a matter of weeks if not days.....I promise!
2006-12-04 13:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cristina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! My husband didn't get any for FOUR MONTHS!! I was literally sick as a dog, day in and day out, for that whole period of time. Have your doctor explain to him the hormonal changes and all that good stuff. You are perfectly normal!!
For the record, I'm 34 weeks, doing fine now, and we consummate like rabbits!!
2006-12-04 13:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by I_didn't_do_it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all pregnancies are unique experience.
so if u wanted it in the first one, but not ne more, that is perectly normal, and for a man to think that you dont like him ne more is also normal.
men do not take hints,
open the communication line, and talk to him about ur problem,
as one girl suggested, that tel him to carry the baby, yes dear,
exactly my point, men have no clue what goes on when women are carrying. since, each time it is different synmptoms.
2006-12-04 13:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not unusual, every pregnancy is different.
I'd be interested to know the sex of your first child verses this one when you find out.
One of the guys at the office has a theory, according to is wife's pregnancies. He said she was horny when pg w/ girls and not when she was pg w/ the boys. Just wondering if there was anything to it.
2006-12-04 13:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going threw this to and it is very normal I got him the book called shes having a baby and i am having a breakdown after reading that he understood
2006-12-04 13:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same with my two kids. I told my guy that unless he was turned on by having me puke all over the place, forget it. He has a hand and he will just have to wait. The second trimester should be better.
2006-12-04 13:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Suga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Tell your husband to be patient, and not to expect you to be the same as in your last pregnancy- each pregnancy is different.
Let your self feel differently during this pregnancy, don't compare it to your first one :)
2006-12-04 13:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋