I made a list which has at the top: "People Whose Opinions About Myself I Give A S**t About."
9 people made it: my grandma, my uncle, my parents, my brothers, my boyfriend, and my two best friends.
When I'm at parties or work or the coffee shop, or other kinds of social situations, and I start to worry about what someone else will think of me, I remember whether there's anyone around who made my list or not. If not, then I shut the thought down, right away. I think it works, I have trained myself pretty well.
I would recommend this for anyone in high school or college especially.
Image seems to be really important these days, and I think people get really self-centered because of it. You worry about how you look and come off to people FAR more than they actually care.
If you made a list like this, who would be on it? Do you think it would work for you? Why or why not?
2006-12-04 05:31:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my boyfriend
my parents
my sisters
and my five best friends
11 people!
and ya i tihink it will work thanks! ill try it out!
2006-12-04 05:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find A book titled approval addiction,by Joyce Meyer,and read it.
2006-12-04 05:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by cece w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom and my boyfriend, but I don't really worry too much what people think anyways....
2006-12-04 05:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea---for ppl that have no life or half a brain.
2006-12-04 05:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋