well i have been going out with my gf for over a week now and our relationship is great. i really do love her alot and want to do sum stuff, but first i just want to know how can i tell her that i love her with all my heart and sound like i mean it (which i do) but i just get really nervous and so im gonna mess up....:( yeah i am a kid im only 14 but i do love her!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 05:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by Amber B. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wait till it feels right, not forced.
2006-12-04 05:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, and you mean it, you should tell her. If it makes you nervous, try to breath deep, listen to your heart, and say it. However, at age 14, I would reccomend taking a step back. Love is something precious, you should make sure your old enough to understand a real relationship. Sex isn't the most importnant thing.
2006-12-04 13:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my young friend you are only 14 ! In Iran this love named teenager love! & it pass very quicly so you should think alot about your love if you thought about it & you know your love is forever you should tell it to your gf by nice words & in the time that is suitable for her . but I think love for you is very soon!
2006-12-04 13:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by ghoghnoose a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kid, if you love her, then you love her
here is what i would do, stand in front of her, hold her hands, hug her, and close you eyes, and whisper it in her ears. "I love you"
But let me just give you some advise. Becarefull, the first one is always the hardest to fall out of love. You might think that she is the best person for you, she might be, but just becarefull, you dont want to be open for heartbreak... you know
hope this helps
2006-12-04 13:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by mystical_rainbow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
worry more about who and what you really are then whatevr you say will be real and from your heart so it will not only sound like you mean it, it will even BE you really meaning it. That always beats just SOUNDING like you mean it. At least to anyone who matters.
2006-12-04 13:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn’t rely on us to tell you when and how to impart it to her.
If you really feel it, tell her!
If you are scared of these oh-so-common words, tell her how much she means to you.
Tell her you feel great when you are together with her.
But whatever you say: Be HONEST!
And I agree with carolina bear: A week is not that long yet!
2006-12-04 15:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by saehli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well never mind if shes Lima or some other sort of beauty, Imagine her like shes under u, that ll make u more self-confident.
How to tell her i love u? If u really love her u ll tell that honestly. Well think of that and u ll do, very easily.
2006-12-04 13:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by alek_rjk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey , all you should do is just speak what your heart says..u love her and thats a fact, your mind and soul would be expressing in their own way when you are in time to confess...just remain calm, and say what should be said, speak up and you WILL sound like u meant it... hehe. all the best
2006-12-04 13:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by azlan s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"over a week now," eh?
maybe wait a little while for the right moment. you can't force this stuff or even really plan for it.
2006-12-04 13:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look her in the eye and tell her just like you did here.
2006-12-04 13:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋