My husband says the only reason why he doesn't like to do it is because he doesn't want to have another baby so soon. Does anyone believe this or does anyone think that he just doesn't enjoy it with me?
2006-12-04 05:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
It's hard to imagine a man not liking to do it with you. There are, BTW, ways of preventing "it" from resulting in additions to the family. Have you talked with him about that?
2006-12-04 05:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the birth control that's available his reason is ridiculous.
How long is this been going on. Since you had the baby? How old is the baby? There could be lots of reasons, is he on meds?
You need to sit him down and talk to him. He could have an affair,
If it started right after the birth of your baby and if he watched the baby being born, some man just get turned off for a while, but that usually settles down. Tell him to be honest with you and let you know what it bothering him. His reason doesn't cut it.
Good Luck
2006-12-04 13:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've heard that some men that view their wives giving birth are somewhat "turned off" after the fact. This may be the case. He may no longer see you as a sexual being, but more motherly. I'm sure that will pass as time goes on. Also, try moving the baby into his/her own room if you haven't already.
2006-12-04 13:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get on birth control or use a condom... If he still say's no i'd start to wonder. Men don't normally refuse sex, but i've heard that some men lose intreset after their wives have a baby. He could just have a low sex drive from stress or work, or it could be something else.
2006-12-04 13:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So take birth control and give him a box of condoms, or get an IUD (they are supposed to work better than the pill).Get rid of his excuses. Then see how he acts and what he says. Did he enjoy sex before the baby? Could he just be tired or jealous of the baby?
2006-12-04 13:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Velken 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes a man's view of his wife changes after she has baby.
He has a hard time thinking that he is do it with a mother. It should pass in short order though after all men can't refuse for long.
2006-12-04 13:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can always ask him to wear a condom or take other contraceptive measures.. if he still has some problem.. then may be he is just temporarily not wanting to have sex cauz of work load or stress.. if even that is not d case then he surely is pushing you away n dosen't want to do with you..
2006-12-04 13:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy! There are so many birth-control options out there it's ridiculous...he might just be making excuses (which is really unusual for a guy!).
2006-12-04 13:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Shi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he in the delivery room? If he was, he will stay away for a while. Let's just call it a loss of appetite. It will come back eventually, trust me.
2006-12-04 14:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by John C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not that he doesn't enjoy it with you maybe he just wants to let things build up and really give it to you unexpectedly.Or I'm not tryna be funny he may have somebody else on ya so you really needs to be looking into dat.
2006-12-04 13:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by playa_for_fun 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋