I have 2 best friends I always hang out with ,I tell them I love themand they say it back.
Everyone thinks we're lesbians(which we're not).. Is it wrong to tell your best friend you love her if everyone thinks your a lesbian????
2006-12-04 05:14:39 · 25 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is many types of Love Like Love for parents Love towards a boy friend and Love of friends,,,Nothing wrong with that and Life is so uncertain I wish I had told my girlfriend I loved her as she was killed in a car accident,,,,And I am a straight lady and have a wonderful boy friend,
2006-12-04 05:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to tell anyone you love them! All my best friends and I say we love each other and we do. We've all been there for each other through some of the hardest times in each of our lives and if these girls are really your best friends it's the same thing. Sometimes I think its funny when were at a restuarant and one of us says to the other "hurry up and pick something hun!" the waiter/waitress sometimes look confused. You shouldn't worry what people think about you in the first place!
2006-12-04 07:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by s_veronica80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a mysterious thing about love, love is a passionate thing to say to someone and allows your emotions feel lovely and kind. when there's kindness, there's no way of denying that you love them. Lesbians therefore is occurred only cause women on women are sexually related, and although lesbians are acceptible, it is very fine that you love your friends though. It is the most tremendous outfeelings that you cannot deny that you love your friends. Don't be ridiculous, love is the best of its realm. That is how love is like, that you love also your friends even though friends are like a decieving thing to see. What can anyone do about love. Love is just like God, and that God is the most powerful thing God has ever created, even though he can be a piss off, he's, just, awefully love.
2006-12-04 05:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by tammuzjune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to tell someone that you love them, if that's the truth. Certainly your best friends who say it back to you don't think it's wrong, and they should matter more to you than the outsiders.
Remember: Of a friend & a lover, the one who by definition loves you is known as a friend.
2006-12-04 12:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people think? I always tell my friends (most of them are straight women and gay men) and my family members that I love them. These people that criticize this and call you lesbians are probably just jealous that they don't have anybody they care about and love or that loves and cares about them. F**k them, they have their own problems. The more people that you have that love you and you love them the better.
2006-12-04 17:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. There are many different kinds of love. I am a lesbian and I tell my close male friend that I love him.
2006-12-04 08:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the problems with English is it is still some what limited. In Greek, there are three words for love: Eros - physical love (sex), Philios - "brotherly" love (caring for friends, etc) and Agape - Spiritual or sacrificial love. The latter is the truest and most pure. This is as close to the type of love God has for us and we can in this world. Numbers 6:24
2006-12-04 05:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, no, no thats not wrong, just let people think what they want to but u 2 know the real truth! so just dont care what they say, because if u really do love her then tell her. but haha funny story, i am bi and so i thought i liked my best friend so i thought i would be smart and ask her out, lets just say that didnt go well lol but yeah theres nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-04 05:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Amber B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man I wouldn't, whether they be man or woman. Doesn't feel right somehow. It makes me feel uncomfortable. I punch my friends ( not women ) in the shoulders to show how I value their friendship. ( not sexually ). Not much for the feminist side that men store deep in the caverns of their being. We tend to think it's a weakness and we put up a barrier. Women will find it extremely hard to get through that barrier.
2006-12-04 05:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by zzap2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't care if it's wrong my best friend is a guy & I tell him I love him all the time but I don't say it when we are near gay guys because he's gay & if he likes a guy & the guy hears that he would think he's straight, that did happen once or twice
2006-12-04 05:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋