To ex wives, do you care if your ex has moved on with someone else?

Question

or do you still want to be with him?

Answer 1

I'm not a ex wife but I would like to answer this one. My ex had been dating someone for the past year. We been separated now for over two years. I would like to see her happy and as long as her new partner treats my children alright I have no issues. I knew that there was nothing I could do or say to make our relationship work. But on the other hand, she still tells people that she would take me back in a heart beat I think that this is a real issue for them if they continue with their relationship. You can't control someone from moving on in their lives after your relationship ends the best you can do is to move on and live life to the fullest since you only have one. Good luck

Answer 2

Well, I am not an ex wife but a soon to be exhusband. My wife moved out 13 months ago and I still want her back. I have not filed for divorce because I told her that I made a vow to her till death do us part. She was having a few affairs while we were married and has been living with someone for over 7 months now. We were married 12yrs. I know I am stupid but I am still in love.

Answer 3

I am married (5-years) to a man who was previously married (12-years). His ex-wife is turbulent and crazy at times. It is really sad. She is bitter because she didnt want the divorce but did nothing to stop it from happeneing. She didnt get anything in the divorce and signed away all her rights to it. There situation was beyond bad while they were divorcing, and we put everything back together again. Home is nice, kids are in decent schools, and my husband is happier than he's ever been. Its been almost 7-years later and his ex-wife is still miserable. I reached out to her once and she threw it right back in my face. She is beyond bitter and there is nothing one can do about it.

Answer 4

An Ex is an Ex for a REASON! Good that is 1 less headache you will have to deal with. MOVE ON!

Answer 5

soon to be a ex wive. before i moved on with my life , my husband had already moved on . his living with someone else. at first i used to think how can he move on so fast. after time i learned life goes on and it will go on for me. at first you might think about wanted him back then when you really sit down in think about it all the bullshit your ex gave you, you don't want him back. want happens is you start getting old feelings back they start to come up from time to time but you need to learn how to deal with those old feelings and they will past and soon you realize you don't want the old relationship and that you want new.read ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger

Answer 6

No, I do not care. No I do not want to be with him. I pray every evening he will find someone who will make him happy. It has been 4 years since my divorce from him. Since the divorce (in his favor) he has improved by going to counseling and now to church. He did these things for himself...which I do admire. But my life has been traumatized by him through physical abuse. I could no longer subject myself to the possibility he would hit me again.My love for him has vanished. I have recently remarried and I am truly happy for the first time in a very long time and in love. Leave the past in the past.

Answer 7

Nope I don't care, because I don't want to be with him. However the part that one may be concerned about is if you have kids involved. Then you may care who he has brought into their lives, i.e. if they are a good person, not trying to play a parent, or get involved in any issues that you may have with your ex.

Answer 8

I wish he would move on. I've been remarried for 5 years and he hasn't so much as had a girlfriend. It's really sad. I don't want him to grow old alone. I still worry about him.

Answer 9

It's time to move on. Holding on to your past will harm you emotionally.

Answer 10

I'm glad he's moved on - good riddance.