My wife and I have had a very rough year and we have almost called it quits several times this last few months. or at least she has almost ended it we have two beautiful girls my 4yr old step daugher, and 2 yr old biological daughter. my step daughters father is not in picture at all no problem there she has been my girl since before she turned 1. I am by my wifes words the best father any one could ask for. I think that may be the only reason she is still with me. I think she loves the father in me but not me anymore I have asked but never get a straight answer.
2006-12-04 04:58:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage needs work just like a job. Get counseling. At some time either one or both of you may want out. Help each other lovingly and freely to help the other make it through. As long as you are both still together there is always time to find ways to spark that interest that caused you to get married in the first place. Show each other how much you mean to each other with kindness, compassion and support. Sometimes the day to day problems can be overwhelming and she may have lost sight of why you fell in love in the first place. Everyday is another for you both to get another chance. Don't be afraid to talk with her and seek help.
2006-12-04 05:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by vennie s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty, either way you are all still under the same roof. It sounds that you "rescued" her in the past. She may not be comfortable with stability. Did she have a lot of ciaos in her life when you met? Does she have a lot now are did you "fix it for her"? Just be glad that you are all together and try really hard at the marriage. Be sweet and lovable and kind. Make her feel wanted (not so much needed to run the house etc) Treat her like you did when you first met. Maybe she will come around and think that you are the best husband as well as father. Good luck!
2006-12-04 05:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by redbeansandrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? Love comes and goes. People, like my soon to be ex, have unrealistic expectations. Marriage is not a rose garden. It's a vegetable garden. There are weeds and you have to dig in the ground to get some of the best stuff but in the end you are happy that you bothered and some years the vegetables are the best you have ever had! And it is nice to have a garden of your own!
2006-12-04 05:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her......be honest with yourself face the truth....you deserve to be loved for who you are not for been a good daddy.......take the risk and ask her....âºâ»
2006-12-04 05:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋