2006-12-04 04:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I Just Did. (can't explain it)
2006-12-04 04:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I thought my husband was the one because he is my best friend and we were attracted to each other. But something was missing that I was never really able to explain. Recently I reconnected with my first love and realized that I am still in love with him 18 years later. The difference with my feelings for the two is I love my husband, he is a good man and a great father. Handsome. The part that makes my in love with the old boyfriend is my stomach does flips when I see him, I want what is best for him but I also want him to want me! I never felt that with my husband and thought that the feelings I and other people are describing on this site were made up in songs. I know now, that at least for me, that true love is not only a logical choice but an emotional and physical one. Its too late for me and my first love, as we are now both married to others, but I hope its something you take into consideration.
2006-12-04 08:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me I had a strong feeling was almost like I was looking at myself in a way cause we shared so many values the same. I can't discribe in words really but it's a feeling you just know this is the one I could be with forever.I went to the other side of the world to get my Princess we met on video chat and after a few months I had to go to her, I never planed to do anything like that I chatted with Asian women because I thought hmmm this is safe no chance I would go there ,opps i was wrong im happy and been married 2 years now.
2006-12-04 05:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by albert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 19 for both of us we were attracted to each other physically.
Weof course thought we were in love. A year and half later we were both virgins and hurting, so we got married..Now 55 years and 4 beautiful daughters and 7 grands and 3 great grands, we still curl up to each other. I realized I love her when it became apparent to me that her welfare and happiness meant more to me than my own. I also realized that she felt the same way...I wish I could explain how it happened. Now at age 75 having gone through breast cancer with her and being able to see over the last horizon of life. I truly feel that I have known real love.
2006-12-04 05:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by lazyone347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if there is such a thing as 'the one'. I had an arranged marriage. The first time I met her I was 17 and she was 14. I thought she was a baby, she was scared to death of me. However, I now totally believe that she is the only woman for me. I'm pretty sure her parents and my grandfather weren't thinking about out compatibility when they arranged our marriage. I think you make your own 'one'
2006-12-04 05:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Casper P.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure how to answer this question. i met my husband in a bar with mutual friends about 6 months before we even said anything of interest to each other. however after i became single i had to see him again and did the very next night after i thought of him. and oddly enough we have been together ever since. 13 years and 2 kids later not only are we still together but still very much in love. and the weirdest thing is him and i could have met at least 10 times earlier in our lives (we were at events at the same time and didnt know it) and didn't. couldn't begin to tell how i knew just had feelings of needing him and he says he had the same for me. best decision of my life to put my whole heart into him and our relationship. dunno if that answered your question but felt good for me to tell you lol. have a good one and good luck on your search for answers.=)
2006-12-04 05:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many things about the person that mean so much.The look when they are happy,cranky, funny,crying , laughing. Their advice ,support and sometimes their lack of support when they are not sure what to do,and they tell you that.They tell you you were a jerk when you were. They tell how proud they are of you and mean it. They love having sex with you,what really hits your buttons. You know what hits her buttons.
Simply put ,the communication.It's a direct line.
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2006-12-04 06:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been on the same page since the first date. Her smile is the best and her heart is the biggest of any one alive. I love seeing my wife everyday. I have to laugh when other men talk about how miserable their wives are.
2006-12-04 05:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had me spending so much money I just really didn't want to get another one and go through all of the same expensive dating and buying her gifts process. I'm kidding. I just knew from the first kiss.
2006-12-04 05:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Abu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 8 years... and i guess it was a comfort.... you always feel comfort around that person because face it they will see you at your worst and you can't hold gas in forever so eventually they see ALL sides of you.... And you know it isn't what you can live with it is what you can't live without!!
2006-12-04 05:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by momof4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We were at work and I was sad to go home without him. I would blush at just a slight contact of our skin. I couldn't stop thinking about him.
2006-12-04 05:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋