I recently found one of my ex'es on the internet - is now a multi-millionaire director of a company. I have always wanted to contact him - and now i have the chance. But it's been over 20 years since I dumped him - dare I get in touch?
2006-12-04 04:56:23 · 40 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes! wots da worst thing dat can happen? him telling ya 2 get lost?
jus make sure u r not contacting him coz of his money, u will b fine!
good luck!
em x
2006-12-04 07:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by emma t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back your ex is https://tr.im/AHfQR
Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-19 15:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be,if he wanted to get in touch Im sure he would have by now.An ex of mine won half a million on the lottery and thought it could win me back but an ex is an ex for a reason and should stay just that.
2006-12-04 05:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get in touch just because he's got money. If you had feelings for him you would have got in touch a long time ago. If you get in touch now he might think you're after money and that isn't a good enough reason, that can only bring unhappiness to you both. Best wishes with your life.
2006-12-04 05:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by JUNE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-21 06:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by mercedes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes an ex for a reason. hed knw its only coz of the money nw but if he was a really bad ex ahd hurt u loads then go get him girl.take him for everypenny hes worth. but if he was a gd man then be happy for him and carry on being skint
2006-12-05 01:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I'd go for it, say you're really happy he's found that success, tell him you'd been looking for him for a while to see how he was getting on, and you'd never have found him if he hadn't achieved what he had. If you were genuinely going to get in touch anyway, money shouldn't get in the way.
2006-12-04 04:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by demnity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send him a note and tell him that you read about him. Wish him luck and include your business card. Was he a EX boyfriend or husband? Boyfriend- do nothing; husband, ask in the letter if he'd like to have a drink one day. Let him respond and move on with you life
2006-12-04 05:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by sushimaven 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you honestly think he will be happy to hear from you? If you had found out that he was working in your local supermarket would you be as keen to get in touch? If you can truthfully answer yes to both questions then you have your answer.
2006-12-04 05:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by annie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh so now all of a sudden he`s attractive again, you women are all the same....bunch of golddiggers, and us men are all the same, now hes a millionaire he`s aiming a lot younger and cuter than you
2006-12-04 05:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by OhSimonsBinDrinkin 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋