I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. People have told me I should leave him, I can do so much better, that he wasnt on my level. I stook by him. As we stay longer together, I feel close to him but slowly not as romanticly but more as close friends. I know he doesnt feel the same way.
Another issue is I have met someone who I am starting to like a bit, romanticly. We just talk nothing more. I cant cheat on my bf, so I've told this other guy that we are strictly friends.Getting to know e/other more though is making it harder. I would love to give this guy a chance but there is one thing I dislike, he admitted to me that after 1yr of being with someone he analyzes the relationship and if he doesnt see himself marrying the person he leaves them. Its like he has an expiration date! So it makes me think, do I want to get involved with this guy? I could see myself falling for him but I dont want to if I know theres a chance after a year he'll be out.
What do you guys think?
2006-12-04 04:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not sure how old he is, but if he's in his mid-late twenties or thirties, that doesn't sound too unusual. A lot of people get that way once they reach a certain age and are ready to settle down. They just don't wish to spend or "waste" time with people they can't see a future with. The only difference is that they usually don't tell you that ahead of time.
If you and your current boyfriend are more like friends than anything else, it might be best to break the relationship off. Especially if he still views your relationship as being on a romantic level. It's not fair to him and it's also not fair to you. As far as the new guy goes, if you like him, I think you should give the relationship a chance. I mean, how you do you know he won't end up wanting to spend the rest of his life with you? When you get involved with someone, you take risks. The particular risk you'd have to take with him is just one of them and it's probably present in more relationships than we realize.
2006-12-04 04:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that the guy is kind of thinking logically after a year of dating someone he analyzes the relationship it's understandable why would you want to be involved with someone you can't see yourself spending your life with??? and the first guy your bf of almost 2 yrs you really shouldn't listen to other people if you love this guy and are messing with that guy then your the bad person and they can do so much better but whatever..........
your call
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2006-12-04 12:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend and see where you guys stand...you won't know unless you try....and if things aren't working out then give the other guy a try
2006-12-04 12:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by be different 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like challenge, uou could take a chance....
2006-12-04 12:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever leave the one that loves you for the on that you love.
2006-12-04 12:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋