because i did not give him money for drugs i told the police and i am scared he will come after me again what do i do
2006-12-04 04:21:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go somewhere he doesn't know where you are for real. Too many times these things end in tragedy my daughter was shot and killed on 12/08/05 by her BF during an argument. I am serious if he knows where you live and especially if you have kids it is better to leave than wait and wonder. Even if you have a restraining order they are only as good as the paper they are written on. When I left my crazy BF years ago he stalked me daily, kidnapped my daughter hid her out for 3 days, kidnapped me at gun point if not for my sister reading between the lines when he allowed me to call her I don't know how that would have ended. anyway please get away and file a police report but don't let them or him no where you are even if you have to go to a domestic viloence shelter go now. If you e-mail me or leave a note on my 360 and let me know your city ans state I will see if they have choices or what there. Good luck God bless you and be safe
2006-12-04 04:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by katlady927 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police exactly what happened. Get a restraining order if you can from a judge. That will give you more credentials with the cops. I would also take a self-defense class and maybe buy some mace. Another good idea for safety is to get a large dog. I'm not saying vicious but a very large dog would deter most guys or at least most strangers. Also, you might want to consider changing the locks.
2006-12-04 04:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what you must do. You read the papers, you know what can happen. The drugs can turn a mild-mannered man into a monster if he can't get enough to feed his habit. Any man who hits you under any circumstances deserves to be jailed - don't let him close enough to do that to you again. Get a restraining order and make sure you are never alone, if possible, until you can make arrangements to move. It is that serious, believe me.
2006-12-04 04:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time you leave the place he knows you live at. Call the police if he comes around and get a restraining order. They don't do much but it can help. You should really find somewhere else.
2006-12-04 04:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mellow_kitty 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
protect urself at what ever needs why take a beating of a fool who wont hit a man cause hes scared to get his *** kicked,but it is okey to touch u.Don't support his habits what makes him so special to be able to ask and receive when ever he wants **** him tell him to get a job, and protect urself remember it is called self-defense
2006-12-04 05:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by vito194 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order on your ex bf...sorry ur goin through some hard time........dont worry.....cal the police n tell them everything ask for a protection
2006-12-04 04:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anne 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋