i feel really self conscience about my breasts and lower region.. i have rather large arolis and in a dark shade of brown and my clitoris is really big... i know they come in all shapes and sizes but i feel really self conscience about it.. does it matter to guys, does that effect anything? am i just being silly?
2006-12-04 04:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by yourmygoodfeeling 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Look at it this way: the person you're getting intimate with WANTS to do that with you -- or they wouldn't be there. That person is no doubt going to be very excited and happy to see your breasts and "lower region." Relax and enjoy it.
There are guys that like certain things, there are guys that like all women no matter what they're like, and there are guys that will like your particular attributes. There are no "absolutes" about what guys like or don't like. The world is full of wonderful variations -- be happy and secure in what you are. It's not like you can change what you are anyway...:)
2006-12-04 04:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't comfortable with yourself it will come across that way to a guy. If you bring out that those things you consider to be flaws they may see it that way too.
Areolas and nipples and clitoris and labia are all different shapes and colors. There are websites that you can look at that aren't pornographic that show different breasts and genitals of women. That way you can see that people are all different. Also..there is a website that women put pictures of their boobs on and they get rated. What you might think of as not attractive are what some guys are majorly into.
2006-12-04 12:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by KeeCee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are self conscience about their bodies. Women are taught never to be satisfied with their bodies, faces, hair etc. I guess you have never been intimate with a man? If you have did any of the things you mentioned matter? I guess not. Men come all in different sizes shapes and colors (yes of their penis too) so be proud with what you have, be happy, enjoy yourself and your partner will enjoy you and with you. If you ever get a remark from a man while being intimate before or after, throw him out, he is not worthy of you.
2006-12-04 12:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Josephine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not being silly at all! It's normal for any woman to be self-conscience about her body. The guys shouldn't care about what your body looks like. It's what you think that really counts. You are right, every woman's body parts do come in all shapes and sizes and no two people are alike. Just embrace your body girl and it'll be alright!
2006-12-04 13:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Areolas come in all shapes and sizes, and people will have different preferences. As far as the big clitoris is concerned, I think most men would regard that as an asset. There are pornographic websites devoted to women with big clitorises.
And anyway, the bigger it is, the easier it is for them to find! :)
2006-12-04 12:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by langdonrjones 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even worry about it. You realize that the guy who is with you is probably more worried that you will think his thing is too small to even notice your arolis. As for the large clit... that would make it much easier to find!! What's your number?? ;)
2006-12-04 12:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not silly I think we are all a little self conscious about something..but I think the guy will be so excited he's getting some action he won't notice
2006-12-04 12:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Milk chocolate arolis: that would go down a treat.
2006-12-04 15:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Perseus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I prefer smaller Areolas. But don't worry, it is not worth worrying about this.
2006-12-04 12:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by kingofdabong 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If your that concerned there's always things you can do to alter your appearance
2006-12-04 12:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋