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my best friend is makeing one of the biggest mistakes in her life and i know that i cannot control what she does and that i can only advise her on her way but she is 16 and she is trying to marry someone who sells crack he is 19. She says that they love each other and thats why they are engaged but she is going to end up getting hurt and she is turning her back on everyone that loves her so when he is gone she is not going to have nobody else. I know this is what is going to happen can anyone give me advice on what to tell her to hopefully make her see what she is doing. Once again she is 16 wanting to marry this guy have his kid and move out.

2006-12-04 03:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by Megan T 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Firstly you can't control what your friend does, only your response...your friend must be in a very last resort place right now if she's willing to do that..convince your friend to look at her situation in the long run, next if she refuses to think about the results of her actions then distance yourself, it may seem hard now, but think how crappy you'll feel if she goes through with her plans, also next if she decides against her plans then support her then spend more time with her.... thats what i would do:)

2006-12-04 03:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgurl3491 2 · 1 0

Is your friend fully aware that she's dating someone who is selling drugs and is considered as an legal adult? First of all, your friend is too young to get married and have children, because she's still a child herself! Also, WHERE ARE HER PARENTS and how come they're not doing anything about it? He has NO BUSINESS marrying a 16-year-old because she's still a minor and he should go to jail for this! I understand that you want to be there for your friend and help her make the right decisions, but this is something that she has to do for herself! If she wants to ruin her own life with a low life piece of crap, let her do that! Besides, she will learn from her own mistakes later on in life and it will be full of deep regret later! Good luck and hopefully my advice helps!

2006-12-04 08:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

From the looks of things your friend already has her mind only on this 19 yr old guy and nothing that you or anyone tells her is going to change her mind. I know that you probably told her that this guy is no good for her and that she probably told you that she loves him. No matter how much you say to her she is not going to listen to you not even if your her good friend. This guy has her hypnotized with stupid things so all that I can say to you is to let her be and you'll see that when this guy dumps her for someone else that she is going to come to you and tell you that you were right. I just hope that he does get her addicted to crack because that would really sux. I wish you the best with your friend I hope that this Helps. God Bless...

2006-12-04 03:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 1 0

Depending on where you live, it may be illegal for her to marry him without parental permission.

Is she so desperate to get married and move out because of her home situation or for some other reason? If you can help her resolve that problem, she may not be so desperate to marry him.

This is really kinda bad, but do you have actual proof that he is a crack dealer? Is there a law enforcement department in your area that you can call and tip off anonymously?

Good luck

2006-12-04 03:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0 0

First of all 16? What is going on with you young girls now in days? Any ways my dear maybe your friend gets high on her mans supplies and she is turning her back on everyone because crack has that effect on people once they are on it.

2006-12-04 03:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0 0

Tell her mom to have the guy arrested as a pedophile. Also look up some info on crack babies and give it to her.

2006-12-04 04:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1 0

IF SHE DOES THIS
IT WILL BE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE SHE WILL MAKE IN HER LIFE
YOU COULD REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE

2006-12-04 03:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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