I'm 21 and my best friend is 20 we met in college a couple years back. Anyway this year she took a break from college and works at a time demanding job and has a boyfriend.
We only have a few minutes to chat on the phone and she wishes there was more time we'd chat.
Well I asked her, when can we just meet up and chat? She said that she's been super busy because of her job and needs to cover for her boss because her boss has doggie issues. She said we'll eventually meet up soon and I'm welcome to stop by and visit her at work.
So what does that response mean? That we're still best friends or what?
2006-12-04 03:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It means you should totally go visit her at work if that's the only way to see her! It's not like you invited yourself, so just ask her what's a good time so you dont go when she's too busy!
2006-12-04 04:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of couse you are still best friends......i just think that she is too busy and i know how that feels when a person is way...too busy and doesn't have time for you and that's ok. Maybe stop buy at her workplace or somethin and give her a little gift or a card about your friendship.... That'll let her know that you still think of her. If that doesn't work out then try to call her sometime and tell her how you feel that should work to .
2006-12-04 12:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie_pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still feels the same way about you but since she is so busy, she hasn't figured out yet how to make time for everything in her life. It sometimes happens, but l don't think you should worry about it.
Now if it still bugs you, why don't you ask her frankly, so at least you'll know for sure.
Good luck to you
2006-12-04 12:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were very important to her, she would make time for you. Sounds like she has all of what she wants at this time but would like to keep you in her shadow in case something changes on day.
2006-12-04 11:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, it's because of the new thing, probalbly she needs more time to miss you, but don't worry you will be ok, just need to wait for her.
2006-12-04 11:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Robbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 be friends wit benefits wit her u might get a lil sumthin out of it
2006-12-04 12:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just stop by with a little gift. she might be down and your gift will come in handy to cheer them up.
2006-12-04 11:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by leah d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel
2006-12-04 11:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋