yesterday I had a fight with my mom. by the way I am 21. I have a full time job. and school. my parents don't want me to do anything but work. I cant go out. and if I did my mom will call me bad name..my mom accuse me that I do bad thing.. I m old enough to know what to do.. they want me to married someone I don't want... I don't want to do that. so lift home. with out money or anything...I had good Friend that I sated with last night. then he drive me to work this morning. and he give me money... my dad call me to asked where did I slept I told him with Friend.. he ask me if I was ganna came home.....I said.. no.... is this is right.......I do wanna go home in fact the apartment is under my name.. so ligely I shouldn't go.. but I lift everything ... I am just so tired.. I cant take it anymore. I just wanna start my life the way
2006-12-04 03:32:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it seems like your parents are being overprotective. But at your age you do have a right to do what you want you are now over the age of parental supervision so I think the only way that you are going to get your independence is by moving out on your own or room mates. And if you don't love who your going to marry I suggest not marrying that person even if it is to make your parents happy.
2006-12-04 03:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dido here I also have that problem with my parents if I stay living with them I know it will be hell at times and if I leave I will have no money thou I am only 18 I still have had many months of being completely homeless and living in a car at an occasional friends house or in the park living were I am that is way unhealthy and working at Wendy's doesn't help with the grease. I hope for your life to start as soon as possible and that you don't have to marry this man that you don't want to marry. Please keep me updated or even e-mail. I am with you.
2006-12-04 11:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sometimes hard to grow up and one of the hardest parts of being a parent is knowing when to stop. Your parents love you and are still trying to do the right thing for you.
You should go back to your apartment and talk to them. Tell them that you are an adult and you need more emotional space to live *your* life (not theirs or the life they think you should have).
It may not work out - you continuing to live with your parents. If it doesn't, please don't move out in anger. Let them know you still love them, you'll still visit, but you need to get on with your life.
Good luck!
2006-12-04 12:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wonderland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell your 21 you should be gone anyway. I dont know why the apartment is in your name but hopefully you can get a roommate and move out and let them keep the apartment.
2006-12-04 11:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋