2006-12-04 03:31:18 · 31 answers · asked by malounga2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
calm...and a fresh start....
2006-12-04 04:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What remains may be determined mostly by the causes which will have led one to lose their control initially. For some, the possible consequences are more of a problem than the situation that caused them.
If it is violent anger, then self-blame sets in and due to loss of dignity, try by all means to suppress their anger, but this inevitably allows it out in covert ways. Thus they may be highly stressed inside which in time cause healthy problems and depression. Those who fall in this category will further inflict self-harm through turning to alcohol or other unhealthy substances.
However, after an outburst, the mind tries to justify the situation, and depending on maturity, will either try to apologise or consider their action as the most appropriate and don't bother to seek reconciliation. The one who reconciles will suffer no ridicule and hence moves on normally; whereas the non-apologetic person may be ridiculed by others and by their concience as well, and as in most cases, suffer from insomnia due to stress.
So what remains is a tarnished character and shame, no matter what will have triggered the anger. Anger is quickly followed by remorse, but sadly the damage will have been done.
2006-12-04 06:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frustration particularly if the anger stems in part from the feeling taht your side of the story was never listened to. If the other party has treated you with a self rightious and and blaming approach. takes a while .....to be honest not sure how long as still there now. Maybe helps to write it down and burn the paper ......or just write it down and post it......or write it down and hide it and then take it out in a while...years maybe and wonder whawtall teh fuss was aboutcos life is so much better
Good luck.....thing is anger is a negative......best to try and get rid...the how bit....well....can but try.
2006-12-04 08:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the anger then you can move on. You can accept things and work through the feelings. Getting through the anger is a great stride towards your future.
2006-12-04 03:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on anger from what..
But usually hurt remains, but slowly over time even that changes and time heals even that. You never forget it fully and sometimes a memory will spark a bit of a painful memory but time helps everything.
2006-12-04 03:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remorse remains. You should learn to control anger as it is your worst enemy. If you have blown off your top then it is Ok to say "sorry" and make up. To err is human but to repeat the same error is pig like.
2006-12-04 05:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"DABDA" is the acronym I have heard. It stands for Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance. If you are past the stage of anger, then the last three are in your future. Good luck to you.
2006-12-04 03:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by wespectmyauthoritah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger and hurt remain, but sometimes understanding of it, to a point. eventually we do come to the conclusion it was not meant to be, and we can than get past it.
2006-12-04 03:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frustration
2006-12-04 03:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by D900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mourning of a lost relationship. Coming to grips with what the future holds.
2006-12-04 04:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rest of your life remains .Life goes on !
2006-12-04 03:34:22 · answer #11 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋