I've been through many more downs than ups in life. I've felt humiliated so many times, felt stupid. I've tried to pick up the pieces several times, stand up after every fall. But I keep on stumbling down. I don't trust myself to be open anymore and be true to my feelings, 'coz no one seems to appreciate that. I do my best to be nice yet also no one seems to appreciate that. Do you go through this? What do you do to make yourself feel better, make you trust yourself again?
2006-12-04 02:54:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi, I just posted my question about 5 minutes ago and I've already gotten helpful answers from you. Thank you for all your help. It's true I'm getting help from you. Have a good life!
2006-12-04 03:06:09 · update #1
You can be who you are, by being true to yourself. Its sweet of you to be nice to people, but if your to nice they can and will take advantage of you. Be a little more "thicker skinned". We all have our down falls, I have had my fare share trust me. Life is a roller coaster and you need to take life and deal with it the best way you can. In the end it will make you who you are today, because of all ups and downs you have gone through yesterday.
2006-12-04 02:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's you who you don't trust.. but other people.
It's normal. Plenty of people feel like they can't be open with others because other people can sometimes abuse the privilage they've been given.
I'm sorry you feel that way, but you haven't given enough specific information for specific advice.
You must have someone you can confide in. A family member, perhaps? Or a best friend?
In time, you will learn to trust again.
2006-12-04 02:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoah... De Ja Vu... honey that is exactly how I used to be... I would actually think about suicide, because I felt that life was just there to knock me down then kick while I was down... I hated it... your not crazy or anything... it happens to a lot of people who try to be nice to everyone... I’m not saying don’t be nice to people... its just that you expect for people to be nice to you when its completely opposite... people suck... dont worry tho... what i do, is that i go to some friends or family members... talking about it usually helps... even if nothing gets done... and its probably that your getting older now and finding out that the world isnt how you thought it would be... your probably in high school no? dont worry real life isnt that bad...
2006-12-04 03:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by Paris, je t'aime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going through a growing process right now, which is just one of many... When you care about something you are going through or about a certain trait, it helps you grow. To become more familiar with yourself and to be better person.
As far as trust, you will never please all the people all the time.
Trust in yourself, appreciate who "you" are!
2006-12-04 03:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm at a loss for words! i now about not being able to trust yourself but I'm sure my circumstances are different than yours as for being nice to other people you dont have too be a people pleaser! if they dont like you fukum lol. do whats best for yourself in every situation then the only thing you'll be is normal!!!!
2006-12-04 03:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your faith..there are ups and downs...good and bad things...but with those problems...you will grow up...and you will know how to hanlde the next problems that you will have....keep your faith...it is the most precious thing you have.
P.s you lost your faith because of other people. but they are not you. You try to be happy and good person...and others will get what they don't expect...god is with us.
Peace...good luck.
2006-12-04 04:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know your intentions are good then you have the right to trust yourself. Anyone who does not appreciate your good intentions is wasting your time; limit your time to those who do appreciate you.
2006-12-04 03:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Wrath Warbone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help
2006-12-04 03:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Adriana 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Buy an 8 ball of coke and cry yourself to sleep. WOOOOOOOO!
2006-12-04 02:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Manuscript Replica 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋