I met this man, At first we called each other every minute of the day and now I barely talk to him at all. He's married and his wife sucks up most of his time and between his two jobs and business, I have only seen him twice this month compared to eight months ago. He told me that we were going to still see each other and to see where things are going between us (meaning he may leave his wife for me). Now our conversations only add up to 4 hours a week. I think he is trying to politely ditch me because every time we talk he will make plans to see me and the day will come and he will not mention our going out. He says he will call me back and some times if it is Friday I won't here from him till Monday and he will tell me how much he missed me. Well, I have been thinking about letting him go. He claims he loves me. What you do?
2006-12-04 02:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by VON 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's married what do you think you need to do? When you get married someone is going to cheat with your husband. Why wouldn't his wife want to spend time with him once he has worked two jobs? She has the right. You were just an affair and now it's over. Find a man that doesn't have a wife and move on.
2006-12-04 02:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all there could be different reasons why married people go out & find a new love. But hun, if he is shorting down the time with you it means he is trying to tell you something! Maybe he has other women like you & who knows how many more he is seeing. Now you said he claims, has he every said he loves you? I don't think he should even say he does love you if he is still with his wife. Sorry sweetie but don't hold on to him, it will only get worse. Leave him & if he really claims he loves you then he will find you again when he isn't married!!!!
2006-12-04 10:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey face the facts.....getting involved with a married guy is nothing more than sex. At the onset of the "relationship" of course he's willing to talk to you every possible minute.....he's still very much interested in bedding you.
But as we all know....all good things do come to an end .... wife will almost always win out. His claims of loving you .... to simply keep you on the back burner for another booty call.
My recco ... if this is not how you want to be treated in a relationship .... GET OUT .... find a single guy and build something tangible.
2006-12-04 12:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people always get involved with married guys? no matter what someone loses. i would let him go. if you think he's trying to do it anyway, then you have nothing to lose by cutting him off. and i would cut him off anyway since he's married. just because he says he might leave her for you (they all say that so you can stay and be there for them until they do, which they never do) doesn't mean he will. it's time for you to move on and find someone you can have a REAL relationship with.
2006-12-04 10:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Your just a back burner woman that he can use to fire up his false ego. Let him go and next time don't get involved with a married guy. A married guy who cheats the the lowest life form a woman can be involved with. They are PROVEN snakes and will destroy you just as they can so easily destroy their own family that they're commited to.
2006-12-04 10:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this guy trying to hit on you if you are married? Maybe you should take the time that you want to waste with him and instead, go to marriage counseling.
2006-12-04 10:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The excitement is over and now you are yesterdays news......feels good being second best, doesn't it?!
Yes, another reason you don't mess around with a man that BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE!
2006-12-04 11:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch his stupid azz and call me =D i'm the same except its with a girl. i think chemistry is an amazing thing. we are all human beings not microwave oven machines. 360-808-0081
2006-12-04 11:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by itriponsk8boards 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go if this arrangement isn't working for you anymore.
2006-12-04 10:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he apparently has a new side job, your services are no longer needed
2006-12-04 17:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋