After Christmas I am going to contact a lawyer and ask my husband to leave. (see my previous questions) His temper is just too bad to live with. So for awhile now I cannot stop thinking about a boy from high school. Of course he is a man now. I have not seen him in 18 years but the feelings I have for him have come back. I have not thought about him in a long time. I feel guilty because as a Christian I should not think about another man but I do. So...have any of you reunited with someone from your past and how did it work out. And if by some small chance he actually remembers me and wants to be with there are children to consider. My kids will always come first. If you have kids what is the relationship like between your kids and the person you reunited with?
2006-12-04 00:56:22 · 4 answers · asked by emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay, I'm not going to do anything stupid. I would not break up someone's marriage. I was only wondering if it has worked out for other people. Everyone has fantasy's. And mine is having a good man who knows how to be a good father. My children deserve a good father. I know the reality is that once I am single I will remain single for the rest of my life. Also I know the dangers of sexual abuse when a man becomes a step father. I KNOW NOT all men abuse but there are a few that do..
2006-12-04 02:09:38 · update #1
I know what you mean. I often wonder about the guy from high school too. But sometimes the grass isn't always greener on the other side. If you need to talk you ca e-mail me. Please be careful when you tell your husband you are leaving.
2006-12-04 03:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate but I'm cautious enough to realize that so much time has now passed. It's been almost 16 years since I've seen my high school sweetheart. We reunited about 5 years ago and we have matured so differently.
We still love each other but we just couldn't come to terms as to who would relocate. He's in Wisconsin and I'm in Georgia. I detest Wisconsin and he's not too keen on Georgia. We couldn't even agree on where to meet in the middle. I don't like winters and he doesn't like hot summers.
Oh well...c'est la vie!
2006-12-04 09:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by lenise1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're never going to have the same relationship you had back then. it was 18 years ago, so much has changed. i think it's just wishful thinking that you hope he remembers you and everything, maybe he has own family to deal with right now.
as for me, i never will. i still love him but i was smart enough back then to know it would never work out, and really nothing has changed now.
2006-12-04 09:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your high school love know this and do they love you back??? think before you do something stupid!!!!!
2006-12-04 09:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by c_jo85 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋