3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted to take some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had sex daily.The past few days I have been trying not to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard, i let herknow it is ok if she enjoyed the sexdo u thinkitsok?
2006-12-04 00:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it is so great that u resist such things,here in India it is a sin to even touch an other person other than ur beloved.It is my own experience that tells u to keep quiet because at the beggining u might b filled with curiosity but this will surely hurt u very badly so dont just ask about the past .Forgive her for all her mistakes which will always makes u feel great .for more details just mail me.
2006-12-04 01:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by achu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to get rid of the rage: dump her and find someone who's not so "fast". She moved too fast with you, and then, in a one-month period, she had sex daily, involving two different men. This girl is a very sexual person, not that there's anything wrong with that, but what you're saying is that she is not right for you. You need a girlfriend who moves more slowly, who is willing to take time and let things happen.
2006-12-04 08:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you've got to realize you need to just pretend you don't know anything. You are going to date people who have been with other people but there's a little unwritten rule never to ask about previous partners, and how many times this, and other details such as these. I know it sounds easier said than done, but you have to just brain dump that info you've learned! She's with you now, that should make you feel better.
2006-12-04 08:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt u ask this a few days ago?
nothing u can do. its ur fault since u wanted time apart. just move on. if you are going to hold it over her head then u need to exit the relationship. in order to maintain a healthy relationship u are going to have to forgive and forget. now that uve learned ur lesson dont play games anymore
2006-12-04 08:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it be and don't ask for the details. it happened while you were broken up so its none of your business. do however go and get checked out for std's. the same thing happened to me and my boyfriend while we were separated. if anything we are closer now that we got it all out of our systems.
2006-12-04 08:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you were faithful to her while you were separated then i would dump her. if you cheated to then you have nothing to be mad about. But i would make her get an AIDS test.
2006-12-04 11:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what rachel from friends did dump her
2006-12-04 08:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by martinf430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋