i'm pregnant, but i dont know what to do cause im only 15
2006-12-04 00:37:29 · 17 answers · asked by kaitlyn 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Be courageous! If you are from a normal family, talk to your parents. Or if you have a teacher you feel you can trust, talk to him/her to help you convey your message to your parents. You might be scared of their reaction, but in an event like this, they are the ones to help you!
In the case, after serious consideration, that you feel you can't talk to your family. There are social networks that can help young mothers in each city/communities. Search the web for such places to seek help.
Don't be scared, it's good you are already looking for help.
Best Wishes!
2006-12-04 01:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by pathanChe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is probably that hardest in many cases but you have to tell your parents. You should also see a Doctor right away. Since 15 is such a young age the Doctor will monitor the pregnancy careful. You should also tell the father of the baby. But be prepared for anything you might not expect. Take care of yourself. Make sure you get enough nutrition and sleep. Going for a walks will help you stay in healthy and help you think more what your going to do next. Don`t ever blame the baby if things don`t work out the way you want it to. I've seen many girls do that. That wouldn't`t be right. It`s not the baby`s fault.
2006-12-04 09:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by laney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes when i was your age. Most of all talk to your mother. Dont be scared of what she will say she is your mother and she loves and cares for you. Talk to your doctor regarding your options and ask questions no matter how silly you think they are because whats happening is really scary. Make sure you make the decision whether or not to terminate this pregnancy and dont let anybody bully you into the way they think. All options are a frightening thought because you worry about what people will think. Teenage mom, give your baby up or abort the pregnancy. they all sound scary. Could you handle a baby and would you have support if you did? Could you give a baby up knowing that someday it may want to know you? Have counselling if you do abort, trust me, your doctor can help organise it.Just remember your mom is still your mom no matter what you decide. Good luck babe :-)
2006-12-04 09:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Big red 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I had my first child I was 16 and I was 15 when I got pregnant, its scary and confusing. There really isn't a lot I can tell you because every family is different, the biggest thing I was afraid of was my dad, but I talked to all kinds of people to get help with my situation, I talked to another girl at my school that was pregnant and she helped, I talked to by dads best friend to help me deal with my dad, and I went and seen my guidance counselor they put me in a class at school that helps mothers and expectant mothers. I think the first thing you need to do is go see a doctor they can help you in many ways, talk to people at school they can help to just by listening, one thing i want to tell you is that being in this situation you will discover who your true friends are, they are the ones that wont desert you. Good Luck to you I hope this helped some, if you wanna talk more just e-mail me.
2006-12-04 08:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by LesHug 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your predicament. But I suggest that you go to a sexual health clinic. They will be able to get together with you and your parents and figure out the best course of action. It is your body, but remember there are other choices out there. If you can't go to a sexual health clinic, then go to your guidance councillor at school..he/she will be able to guide you into the right direction.
Just remember, it isn't the end of the world, you have choices...you can do this...many before you have and have done really well. But might I suggest that what ever you decide...please stay in school.
2006-12-04 08:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Medic/BN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey there, theres nothing to worry about, its a wonderful thing which happened, keep your head up and be happy and gratefull that you have experianced something beautifull, you have to tell your parents before its too late, just do it, it`ll be over once you tell them, and i`m sure if you tell them in a nice calm way, they would not be angry, they are your parents and they are there to help you, they would be proud of you. You can be strong.
But remember God is up there taking care of you, he loves you and he will help you, but you will not see that, just leave it all to your parents and God.
good luck luv ya xxx
2006-12-04 17:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by Emily * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school counselor, he/she can help to find the right things to do. That's what they are there for. Everything will be confidential.
I'm sorry this life-changing event has happened to you at such a young age. It will be okay. Make the right decisions, things will work out for you.
2006-12-04 08:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You certainly knew how to get to this point, so that you're 15 is irrelevant..
Talk to your parents. If you truly can't, talk to your school nurse or a trusted teacher. They will help you to understand what options you have and help you to make your decision.
2006-12-04 08:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by mr_mumbles_nyc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww hun i'm so sorry to hear that--that you don't know what to do).Just keep your head up hun and have faith,God will take care of you and the baby.I hope and pray that everything goes okay for you....Good luck and congradulations!Don't forget your mom will be around for you hun and help you out also(at least i hope she will.)Have a great day hun,
Brandy
2006-12-04 10:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well you need to talk to your parents if you havent already. there are alot of girls that go threw this your not alone. i know pregnancy is scary at any age let alone 15. but i have been there. my parents were very supportive, you can talk to your parents they can help you apply for medicade that will help pay for your doctor appointments and the delivery, how close are you from being 16? if your very close you can talk to your parents about taking ged classes and getting your ged instead of going to school. or you can apply for public assistance that will help pay for day care while you are at school.me i got pregnant right before i turned 16 i got my mom to sign for me to quit school and i went to ged classes. i would very strongly advice going to ged classes you need it in order to get a good job. i know you are probly thinking im only 15 good job? but it will be alot easier to get your ged while you are pregnant than it would be if you was trying to go to classes with a baby. and after the baby you can work at a fast food place for money until you reach 18 and can get a better job a better job will come alot easier with a ged. i worked at a truck stop part time, it gave me money for diapers and stuff that me and the baby needed. my parents let me live with them and im sure yours will to. if you havent told them i will warn you they will probly be mad specially dad, your mom will be upset probly cry. but they will help you get threw this.i know it will be hard being a teen mom but it can be done, if you go to school pregnant if they allow it at your school you will probly here a bunch of bull **** about you being easy and what not. thats why i said maybe your mom will help you get into ged classes, cause going to school pregnant isnt easy. every girls situation is diffrent. but i got pregnat by an older guy he told me if i loved him then there was only one way to prove it and i did love him didnt want to lose him so you could say he manipulated me into it. but i understand this happens. but you can still build a future for you and your baby.its going to be tough but trust me you can do it. well i hope ive helped and i am very against abortions i under stand your young but like i said i was there in your spot and it can be done. and i went got my ged at 16 then i went to classes for becoming a cna and i made it with a baby. now i am older and i am married but not to my sons dad. and i am glad that i provided a good life for my son. you like i said can do this too. and im sure you will have some help from the babys dad and his parents too.
2006-12-04 10:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋