i'm pregnant and im only 15?

Question

i'm pregnant, but i dont know what to do cause im only 15

Answer 1

have you talked to your mom? you'd be surprised how understanding parents can be take it one day at a time ask for support from your family and talk to the father about his wishes too i was pregnant at 15 many years ago and i made it through and have a wonderful child now dont go through it alone as for help when you make any decision.

Answer 2

If you have a close relationship with your mother, talk to her right away. If not, then another family member perhaps, an aunt, cousin, sister. You need to have as much support around you at this time as you can get, do not keep this to yourself. Your family will be able to help you decide what to do, but be prepared for some anger and disappointment on their part, after all, you are only 15. Once they get past that, help should be the next step.

Answer 3

hey,
you should probably talk to your mum about this...she'll know what do to coz she has been through pregnancy already. if you don't feel like you can tell you mum or she isn't availabel talk to an adult close to you tha tyou know will help you.

remember to eat properly and healthily becaus eyour feeding two bodies!!

though aboortion is most probably a possibilty it don't htink (personally) that it is right but you may feel differently!

you should also see a counsellor, this a big thing to go through when you are so young and you will need as much help as you can get!

see your doctor, he may be able to get you onto a counsellor and also tell you what needs to be done in order to become a mum. he will also tel you all the differnt things you can do.

tel lthe father, he needs to take responsibility for his actions aswell !! :-)

good luck, chin up
:-)

Answer 4

i was pregnant at 15 also and i was so afraid what people would say but i had my baby anyway . i didn't drop out of school i went on and graduated. i had help from my mother. it's going to be hard but if you have parents that will help you out you can make it. don't put yourself down everyone make mistakes in their life. don't drop out of school because you need your education. if you keep your baby be the best mother you can be to your child. my son now is 16years old . good luck

Answer 5

Please don't trust your friends or us strangers on here to give you pregnancy advice. We are all telling you to go to your parents and that is good advice but, you don't want to listen to any other advice on her except that. You may think that your parents are going to hate you and that isn't true. They may be hurt or disappointed but that is natural to think that way. The truth is they do love you and they need to know so they can help you through this at this time in your life. So many things are going to happen to your body right now and you need your families support and prenatal supervision from your Dr. please go now and talk to your mom or older sister or brother and if your too scared to tell your mom and dad then, tell another sibling to talk to your parents for you but they need to know as soon as possible.Good luck sweetie and please let us know how it turns out we would all like to know.

Answer 6

Sounds like you mother and brother should have been better role models. Why do I say those 2 only? Because I'm willing to bet in todays society that there is no father figure in the house, and if there is a male in the house then your mother is shacked up and not married.

Answer 7

you must be feeling frightened right now, and that's understandable. but i do think you should see a couseller or psychologist immediately.
having a baby is not the end of the world, but it certainly will change things - and not necesarily in a negative way, but alot will be different.
you need to feel assured in your decision, and i beleive this can only be done with counselling.
all the best sweet heart.

Answer 8

Honey, tell your Mum, its the best and most sensible thing to do. You need your Mum to help you understand the options open to you, and you need your Mum to support you. Having a baby is scary enough as it is, but you're still only young so you need that extra emotional support. I hope it works out for you.

Answer 9

The first thing that you need to do is talk to your parents. If that is totally impossible, then you need to find an adult that you can TRUST - a family member, a teacher, a minister - and ask them to help you talk to your parents. You cannot keep this to yourself and you need help from a reliable source.

Answer 10

I personally think that it was a mistake. Your choices are basically

*Have it and look after it for the next 18 (minimum) years
*abort it
*Have it and put it up for adoption.

I'm tempted to put my opinion across, but as far as I'm concerned, it's up to you whether you want the kid or not.