my friend is 16 years old i know shes at the legal age and that but over the past 3 months shes been going out with anyone and has had sex with quite a few people aswell. Iv'e tryed talking to here but she just doesn't click on. what can i do?
2006-12-04 00:20:11 · 10 answers · asked by Laura lvz david 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There s nothin you can do about it darlin. Just make sure your there when when she takes a fall and realises the error of her ways. Dave.
2006-12-04 01:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by warpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she do any protection while have sex with them?
try to show her some news or proof of girls with unwanted pregnancies, abortion as well as the consequences by having promiscuous sex...
surely no one would want a 16 yrs old girl's life end up in any kind of regret...
2006-12-04 00:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of you to be concerned but this is her chice.Tell her to get herself checked regularly and tell her that what she is doing isn't the most sensible.
Don't be pressured into having sex yourself because of her behaviour.American shows like Dawson Creek tell us that sex is the world's most amazing thing but that isn't true, its totally overhyped.Most young love ends in tears.Keep yourself for someone special.Most of the guys your friend is going off with will not respect her or treat her well in the long term.
2006-12-04 00:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes on a road to destruction - or the std clinic!! I think you need to tell someone who's a lot older and who she respects. Sounds like shes looking for love and thinks sex is the way to get there. You sound a good friend so just be there for her when it all goes wrong.
2006-12-04 00:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing that you can do really. this is her body and she is choosing to abuse it. i guess you could get some information on std and things but i doubt that will help. she is old enough to know about it by now.you could tell her that you don't like what she is doing and that you have tried to talk to her about it and she does not want to listen, and that you can not hang out with her any more.
2006-12-04 00:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to live like that, thats her choice, but make sure it doenst rub off on you. One bit of advice for her, make sure she is using protection and is takingt he pill. The last thing she wants is a baby totaly ruining her life.
2006-12-04 09:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really nothing u can do . let her do her thing. its her body. if she wants treat it like that.......let her. it sounds harsh but its life.
but if she runs into n.e trouble be there for her. dont blow her off.
keep talking to her. tell her how it makes u feel. make her realize that if she keeps on that she will get pregnant or get some kind of disease. hang in there things will get better
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-04 03:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her when her world comes crashing down.
In life we learn from our mistakes. Your friend will learn from hers, so if you value her friendship, stick around because she's going to need you soon.
2006-12-04 02:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would try my damn hardest to stop her from sleeping around,i hope she is using contraception,does she not respect herself whatsoever? if this carries on i would thing about talking to her parents,she maybe angry with you for a while but she will soon relise you were only doing what was best for her and she will soon thank you for it!
2006-12-04 00:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by NEIL C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel and if she can't except that then you don't need her as a friend.
2006-12-04 00:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by xjojox_wht_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋