last night, my gf asked me to go 2nd base with her but i refused to becasue i dont see her as an object am i gay? because most guys would have just done it
2006-12-04 00:14:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you don't like to get sexual, don't ask yourself if you are gay... You can ask yourself if you are gay if you catch yourself staring at a gorgeous hunk and imagining yourself with him.
Maybe you respect your girl too much, maybe you're one of those guys who want to save themselves for marriage. You're a rare species dude, so don't conform to society, celebrate your uniqueness.
2006-12-04 00:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur only gay if you have feelings for the same sex
u mite jst be a sensitive guy, ur gf will probly respect u more 4 holdin bak, n not jst jumpin @ th first chance, n th more u hold bak th more she'l b dyin 4 u. (dont leave it 2 long tho cos she might go else where)
2006-12-04 08:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by cinders162002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don´t think so is just maybe that you are not ready to take that step with her cause you don´t feel it and it is good that you don´t see your girlfriend as an object cause none woman is... so maybe is just that you love her so much but no I don´t think you are gay... you need to have feelings for another guy..
2006-12-04 10:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not gay unless you'd prefer to do things with a guy instead of your gf
2006-12-04 10:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think u are gay. U just may not be attracted to her.
2006-12-04 12:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no .... I can't kiss my girlfriend .... am I gay? Oh no, my faucet is leaking ... am I gay? Oh no, I wash my *** with the good soap ... am I gay?
You all crack me up. You are gay when you feel sexual attraction towards the same sex. Then and only then are you truly a homosexual.
Get it? Got it? Good !
2006-12-04 09:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably not. I mean, prehaps you're just not ready, that you feel it's too early in your relationship, and possibly have too much respect for her. i guess you have to answer the question, are you attracted to men?
2006-12-04 08:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Skippy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello? she is yo girl friend pal...
You might be gay. I had a few friends like that, and it took them quite a while to figure things out.
2006-12-04 08:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Learner 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes u gay n a big dummy
2006-12-04 12:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe need a little more detill Im me
2006-12-04 10:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋