Wife has been dreaming i cheated on her ,for some reason she has always been a control freak , I have been totally faithful .
2006-12-04 00:14:14 · 7 answers · asked by wassupwithu2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously words are not enough to make her feel loved. Actions speak louder than words. Give her extra attention, tell her she looks beautiful, & a lil counseling sounds like a good idea too.
2006-12-04 00:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Unsecure isn't a word.
B) She has control issues, obviously, and is paranoid. Take her aside and tell her the truth, looking her in the eyes and be kind about it. Ask her why she thinks you were unfaithful, and tell her the truth! Would you ever cheat on her? Have you desired other women and come close to acting upon it?
If she loves you, she'll listen and answer truthfully. If you love her, you'll do the same.
2006-12-04 00:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has self esteen issues. No matter what you do, you will get the blame for alot of things. Guilty or not. She probably feels that she isn't good enough for you, your up to something all the time etc;. Turst issues, mood swings etc;.
All you can do is re-assure her of your love and give her alot of attention. Compliment her often, and try to get her to seek couseling or go see a doctor about her depression. I'm living in the same situation with my wife. It's a daily battle and I hate it.
I heard that thyroid problems can cause depression and mood swings with women??? I don't know, but I'm trying to figure out how to suggest this to my wife without her spazzing out on me.
Good Luck Man.
2006-12-04 01:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be awful when someone suspects you and you have been faithful. You said it best when you said she is really insecure. If that's the case, reassure her...Tell her how much you love her, often (and not just when you are interested in having sex), tell her how pretty she is, what her great traits are, why you fell in love with her. If you increase the dialogue between the two of you and give her compliments and let her know she is the one you still love, she might have less worries about you being unfaithful.
2006-12-04 00:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by E.J.S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this is happening to you.
You may want to investigate and see if it is her that is cheating. Alot of times when someone just starts accusing out of the blue for absolutely no legitimate reason, it may mean that they are thinking about it, or doing it.
Regardless, this is definitely an issue, and I think that if she's not doing it, and you aren't, and she persists, then it may be time to seek some outside help.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-04 00:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by mskatyj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dt think she's been acting like that with no reason...something must have happened to make her feel this insecure and distrustful...u gotta find out what is it and talk abt it!
GL !!
2006-12-04 01:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to marriage counseling and tell her over & over again how much you love her and how wonderful she is... if you keep it up long enough, she'll start to believe you and, in turn, start to trust you...
2006-12-04 00:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by nuknuklion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋