iam a rich man aged 17. i heard my frnds talking tat they f-ship wit me only for money ,the is no true f-ship in them. i avoided them.Wat shall i do 2gain good frnds
2006-12-04 00:05:09 · 12 answers · asked by gautham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know what you mean. This will always happen in life. My suggestion is that you do not use your money that often on persons, like buy gifts, or sponsor activities etc. I guess those who are there when you are in need will be your true friends. But as long as you are rich, you will always be confronted with people like these, who try to use and abuse you.
2006-12-04 00:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by ludacrusher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are a rich boy. You are so young that it will take a while to become a man. I am sorry to hear that the friends that you though were true are just users.
Friends in life are very rare and if you find one, you are the richest person in this world. In life you will have lots of acquaintances ( these acquaintances Will be the people that you go dancing, traveling, etc...) but a friend will be a person that does not necessarily need to do all this with you but that will care for you and be there for you when times in life will be tough!!!!!!
Of course, if you come from a wealthy family, it makes it hard to find real friend. Money is a good attraction for people and it will not make it easy on you. However, shape up and be smart don't be the one always paying or always available for everyone!!!!!!Make your " friends " respect you and make it clear that if you are rich does not mean to be used by anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being rich doesn't mean that people should take advantage of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be careful especially when you will date a girl. I am a woman and I know that the girls today will play any role just to get married with someone rich!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 08:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by marque1717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever watched 'Coming To America' ?
Hang with new people and pretend to be poor until u know that they are trustworthy, loving and true friends and then u can repay them buy inviting them to concerts, your home and wherever else you rich people go for expensive entermaintment.
And then ( when your the most popular person in your area) you can buy me a convertable for my excellent advice but for now ten points will be good enough.
L.O.L
2006-12-04 08:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are genuine to 10 folks I am sure 1 will be genuine to you.In this life no man is an island so 1 good friend is all you need.
2006-12-04 08:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by mllttsmn2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how high you value friendship. Tell your 'friends' that you know, and that they're (insert swear word of your choice here). Then, be yourself and let things happen. You might be alone for awhile, but I'm quite happy in my lonesome.
If you stumble across someone interesting, talk to them and develop a friendship.
2006-12-04 08:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if that's the case. they reall are not your true friends from the start. i know. i experienced this situation. some people are just materialistic. i just ignore them. i did once pretend that i am just an ordinary gurl and made friends and when we really knew eachother i let them know that i was in a higher status in life. at first they were shocked but they understood me. however they did not ask in return from me.
2006-12-04 08:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mikaela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I was in the same boat in high school but just stop giving to your friends and you will find out who your true friends are. if you are like me my friend like me because i always had weed in my pocket and they didn't have to buy any and when i quit they stopped coming around except one person and that is my best friend and now my wife!! (((try that)))
2006-12-04 08:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by c_jo85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is really hard to find friends for who you are and not what you have, so take it easy and you will find that true friend. Contact me if you need to talk K?
2006-12-05 01:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by masterflagman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these friends who you are talking about are just
'weatherby friends'
as soon as your money is gone, so are they! just cut all connections with these losers and just share your true feelings with someone else...im sure you will find people who your truly trust in time. gd luck
2006-12-04 08:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually in friendships,the rich ones want more attention and so they tend to "sponsor" their friends to achieve that.if you did this then change your style.Don't let your friends "siphon" your money.Don't show off what you have.Money is difficult to come by so use it wisely.
2006-12-04 13:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋