Well... see i have this friend melonie and shes like my uber bestfriend i also have mad feelings for her i do anything to see her happy even if its not with me well last friday we were at the mall and she met this guy and like she started talking to him and within a hour they started walking off without me and **** acting like i wasnt there and she really likes this guy plus she has a boyfriend im worried that if he dosent end up dating her that hell take my place as her bestfriend and thats all i have i know i dont stand a chance with her so ya i dont know wat to do <_>
2006-12-03 23:20:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You cannot make a person do anything he or she doesn't want to do. If she wants to have multiple relationships, then that is out of your hands. Stop dwelling on things you cannot change. If she is old enough to enter any type of relationship, then she is old enough to accept the consequences of the decisions she makes (good or bad). Be a true friend. Be there for her when she needs help picking up the pieces. Don't press your wants and desires (for her) on her. Live a positive life and she will see you for who you truly are to (and for) her.
2006-12-03 23:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Illuminated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young my friend. All I can tell you are that there are plenty of fish in the sea and not to ever hang your hopes upon one person. Try making some more friends. If she has a boyfriend AND is talking with other guys, chances are she's not interested in you and you need to develop your own circle of friends who are more loyal. You deserve to be treated better. Don't sell yourself short.
Good luck!
2006-12-04 07:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As there is a saying,STRONG REASONS MAKE STRONG ACTIONS,talk 2 your friend clearly 'coz this truth will be the BEST proof of your love.
2006-12-04 07:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out.... anythng can be resolved tht way..
2006-12-04 07:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by §wëet @ heãrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u like her/
2006-12-04 07:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋