about 2 weeks ago, i told a friend that i was starting to like her more than a friend and she didn't feel the same. it got weird for her because she said she was new to relationships, so she decided to end the friendship. she didn't want to talk about it either. she clearly said "No" to staying friends.
well... my current situation now is that she has not blocked me on an instant messaging service, so... i saw her logged on a few times wen i logged on. she didn't talk to me. i didn't talk to her either. wen i was about to log out (third time i've seen her online after our "discussion"), i told her cousin to say "Hi" to her for me.
this was 2 weeks after we lost contact. so do u guys think i made it even more weird for her when i did this? and did i pressure her again?
2006-12-03 22:50:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Actually you are pressuring her.
It was very mean desicion of her to end everything in an instance.
But trust me, dont go down on her too much. She clearly doesnt want this anymore, I would suggest you to not to contact her anymore. It would make you feel a lot better if you delete her from your list. It was so easy for her to block you from her life and list.
I think you deserve bette than this.
Do yourself a favor, and get more friends who would treat you with more humanity.
Just believe that life is way too short to be wasted on such people. I know you will miss her, take all the time u want and delte from your list and move on. Someday she would realized what she actually has missed. Dont push her it wont do any good.
For your good heart u would definately find other good friends.
Good luck.
2006-12-03 22:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is a snobby one,yeah maybe she got a little put-off by you admitting you liked her more than a friend but she dosnt need to go to extremes by not talking to you anymore!!thats just sad! dont worry about it,shes the one thats missed out not you.dont try to talk or contact her in anyway-when shes ready she will.goodluck
2006-12-04 06:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by rosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making mistake after mistake man ...by pressuring her again ..she is libel to call the police ..
can you not take no for a answer...and what about your pride dude ..plenty other fish in the sea not if their short on the menu ..I wouldn't bother
2006-12-04 07:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of friendship you ve been having..... and how it started... But it was good to tell her your piece of mind regardless.... Now let sleeping dogs lie.. dont provoke her she could be very mad.. and dont go about sending people to say hie to her... she will come back sooner or later.. whether she will say no or yes to your proposal.. but she will come back .. believe me... so just hang in there.. things will be alright... dont hang yourself!
2006-12-04 07:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by butty-real-tiuos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does feel weird now. Just bide your time, she will come around to talking to you again. Just don't ask her out anymore.
2006-12-04 06:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Brightside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't made a mistake it's normal to ask someone you like her.
but i think that she is hiding something from you.
you know she might be a virgin.
some women keep their virginity until the get married you know
2006-12-04 06:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by lali_albanian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You were just being courteous and wanted her to know you had moved past the misunderstanding.
2006-12-04 06:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by carhump_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-04 07:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you did nothing wrong.
2006-12-04 06:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope .... wat u did was rite .......
2006-12-04 07:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋