I lost my virginity a few months back and have only done it about 4 times since seeing as th pain really put me off. Slowly the pain is now beginning to go slightly but now I notice I still bleed slightly everytime after sex. Is there something wrong with me Im really worried?
2006-12-03 22:29:29 · 16 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you shouldn't worry but it is best to see your doctor, there are many reasons that could explain why this is happening.
2006-12-04 02:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a small growth in your vagina, which I don't think is the case here. A little blood inside secretions or his semen is normal and nothing to worry about. If it is more than just a little, and looks like your hymen has broken all over again, you may have an injury. Sometimes the blood will come from him and not you, which is also normal because small amounts of blood can be inside the semen, unless you are using condoms. Be gentle and relax. If it persists and it really hurts inside during and afterwards, don't have sex again and see a doctor. I don't know how old you are, but if you are still in school you should wait until you are older and your body more mature. It can only do you good. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
2006-12-04 06:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Blodeuedd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only had sex 4 times since you've lost your virginity, there can be some stretching happening each time you're having sex, tearing the vaginal walls or perineum a little bit. The perineum is the sensitive area between your vagina and your anus, which frequently gets torn during childbirth and sometimes during rough sex. You may not be lubricated enough. Try using some sort of water-based lubricant such as KY Jelly - the generic is cheaper and works just as well! Avoid vaseline and oil based lubricants... they can trap bacteria and cause infections, and just get the "plain" lubricant to start with. The warming lubricants can cause a burning sensation for you, and that's just one more thing to worry about. If you are experiencing a LOT of blood (more than just a spot) then definitely see your doctor. It wouldn't hurt to talk to your doctor about it anyway.
2006-12-04 07:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Freya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. No, there is nothing wrong. But I sure can understand why you worry. It is scary enough to start having someone put their penis in you, but the bleeding would make it seem even worse. Both the discomfort and the bleeding will end and you will feel much more pleasure than pain. Part of the key is in learning to relax. So if you are anxious about this, please just drop in to see your doctor. She can help you feel better and then you can just take a deep breath and enjoy yourself more. Once you do, you will discover that penetration is a feeling like no other. :)
2006-12-04 06:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you see your doctor. There could be several reasons why there is blood. If there is foreplay that involves manual play, then the nails of your partner could have caused cuts inside. Or it could be from rough sex and hitting the cervic. Also could be from lack of luberication and the dry friction is causing the skin to come away, thus cause it bleed.
It is best to get checked out by a doctor to rule our any serious health problems.
2006-12-04 06:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by blushingivy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's loads of reasons why this could happen ranging from tiny problems to slightly bigger ones. You should go to your doctor straight away and explain what is going on... they'll then examine you to find the problem. I had this problem at the beginning of my sex life too, and it was all sorted out very easily and quickly. Dont be afraid to go get the problem sorted!!!
2006-12-04 10:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sinead G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not normal, I advice you to see a doctor now
2006-12-04 06:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by herosam2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem a few months back. Turns out I had a polyp - doctor removed it completely painlessly and now I don't have the problem. Please see a doctor.
2006-12-04 08:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say the same as the rest GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR
2006-12-05 11:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doctors give the soluctions 4 everything or the best advice..
2006-12-04 07:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by boredgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋