I'm really down- just found out my girlfriend is a lesbian. She told me last night and I don't know what to think.
Its not her sexuality that i have a problem with, its that shes a liar!Help!
2006-12-03 22:19:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thankyou to the person who suggested staying friends. I will keep in touch.
2006-12-03 22:29:10 · update #1
ask if you can still be friends with her and support her whatever happens.....
then go out with errrrrr laura and make yourself better then find the perfect person in the world because you realise ur amazeing just like ur hat. tell laura your gay and go out with a differant girl anyway =)
2006-12-04 22:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by louise h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really a liar...if she was trying to figure things out...by dating a guy...she should've told you from the beginning that she might be gay
take a break from dating and just enjoy life...
2006-12-03 22:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by 1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad news it would have been better if she had said that she was a bisexual.
listen don't get all sad about it there are a lot of people who are not lesbians in this world so you might have another chance.
2006-12-03 22:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by lali_albanian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So u don't lose to much sleep over it think of it like this, she always was she just needed a guy fix. Who knows like he said it may play to your favor. Better luck next time!
2006-12-03 22:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sobe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a liar always a liar. Dude she likes girls! Find a girl who wants you.
2006-12-03 22:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Barry W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry you got hurt like this.This is something that will hang in the back of your mind for years to come.She was using you as her cover to hid be-hind..get away from it.It's not your fault.She had no right to lie and use you.She's TROUBLE...RUN.
2006-12-03 22:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Wishee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on. Plenty of other nicer ladies out there. At least you found out, so now you can move on and not worry about it!
2006-12-03 22:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Paul H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you support her? i think its important that u stay friends with her and let her know you support her in coming out. my close friend (who i havent talked to in a long time) still thanks me for helping him in coming out. she probably didnt lie to you purposely... she was probably either in denial or just really confused. I dont know if you guys were close or not but if you were im sure it was equally hard for her....
think about that, she probably needs you now.
2006-12-03 22:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She just thought that maybe with you, she could be straight.
That's the problem with the world today... homosexuals are so scared that they want to be straight now -.-''...
Anyways forgive her and support her
2006-12-03 22:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by silvs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg thats really steep.
It sounds to me like she always knew, but i think she thought you were such a nice guy that you could possible turn her straight, she doesnt want to be abnormal.
2006-12-03 22:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋