my 4 year old daughter suddenly refuses to go the gardery school.what shall i do?

Question

I used to take her to a nearst gardery school.every thing was allright,she is brillantant learns fast. but suddenly she said to me that she doesn't like that gardery school any longer. she said that her teacher punished her by beating her, that's why she doesn't want to go back.

Answer 1

My dear, I am sure that you have an undoubtedly lovely and smart girl, at their four or five years old they become even more seeking and attentive to other's acts and attitudes. If that is true,namely what your treasure said that she has been punished by beating, that is quite a serious issue. It's normal if that happened she to refuse to go back. I would go in the gardenery school and will discover what is the truth,sometimes even in the best places there are bad, unsuitable, easily irritated people, as could be the case with her teacher.
There is, of course, the possibility to be said profused, as she could want to be longer time with you and to drive your attention. She could be jealous of somebody, for example if there are smaller children than her at home, etc. At any event, try calmly to go and talk, then have a chat with your little daughter.

Hope that is of some help.
Have a great time!

Answer 2

You cannot believe what kids say because at that age they like attention seeking and also it might be a completely different problem. Talk to the teachers and you might discover the real problem.

Answer 3

You should get to the bottom of that.Doesnt sound right. Maybe theres another part to this story she isnt telling.Is her teacher man or women.? I would dig deeper,good luck

Answer 4

Try to ask her what exactly happened. You may also try to ask the teacher. According to their reactions-you will know better what to do.

Answer 5

Call the school and find out what happened.