2006-12-03 20:34:52 · 15 answers · asked by tam h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you really can't be sure of everything, that's why you really need to know not only your partner if you plan on getting married, but you need to know yourself, more importantly. don't expect a bed of roses. This is what married people have told me.
2006-12-03 20:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one can be sure love will last but you can do your part by being honest and do your best in making sure it does. Most couples get married then have children and before you know it one of them is wondering. You have to make sure there is lots of we time and not let the children become your whole life. Be honest and do your best to keep the lines of communication open. I hope that helps.
2006-12-03 23:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People take marriage for granted. Marriage is a commitment to one another and to keep one another committed to each other we must work hard at fulfilling each others needs instead of fightiing and resisting. There needs to be a respect for one another. It sickens me to see how much television tears down husbands and makes them look like nothing. The bible says that when a man finds a wife he finds a good things. Have integrity and dignity and be desirable. Learn to love him! Dont be judgemental! Just love your partner UNCONDITIONALLY! Forgive one another for errors. There is NO perfect partner. We are all imperfect. Be content with what you have and thankful. Tell your man/ how grateful you are for what he brings home. For the wife compliment her when she has done something remarkable or made a good meal, whatever. See what you can do to help each other. Make him sandwiches. Buy her flowers. Treat him like a king. treat her like a queen. Give him a reason to want to come home to you. Give her reason to be at home for you!
People get lazy and swallow all the garbage the television pours out. THey live by emotions and we all know how deceptive emotions can be. Feelings and emotions lie to one. Override them and be sensible. Seek wisdom while it may be found.
Good luck and dont doubt. Its all up to you to make your relationship work. You can. It helps to walk in faith as well.
2006-12-03 20:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Love is always a chance because life is always a chance. I'll bet the guys driving a pickup truck down the street in Chicago a few years back didn't expect to have a DC-10 engine land on their heads.
2006-12-03 20:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dicipline ,respect, a solid friendship,
you cant base your relationship on hot sex or lust because there is always more and what may seem to be better looking prospects around the corner.... you need to always have good communication and constant work... if you are tired and dont want to talk make sure you get at least that much out
know who you are marrying before you get married
2006-12-03 20:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI - GREAT QUESTION
You may have already discovered that love lasts. Unconditional, true love LASTS. (think of your parents and siblings)
RELATIONSHIPS often have little to do with love when things go sour. Much more to do with outside influences, poor communications, anger mismanagement, lack of effort, insecurities, etc. Awareness of these can make all the difference.
2006-12-03 20:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by SMichael 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you meet your your soal mate your one true love it wont dye it will last forever and be strong,its just that so many people get caught up in amoment oif infatuation most of the time even if they know its not true and it ends up in divorce or seperation
2006-12-03 20:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing in this life,in this world is permanent,its all temporary,there's no assurance that even when you are so in love today,it's gonna lat forever.just enjoy it while it lasts,give love as much as you can,and if one day love chooses to leave,be thankful that it came by and rest in your hear and life for a while,but it doesn't mean the end of everything.it just means,something is coming your way,and if it does,welcome it with open arms...!!!!
2006-12-03 20:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry friend, you can never be sure. Don't think about divorce, follow your instinct and wish for the best.
2006-12-03 20:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one can be sure. I think if your parents have a strong marriage and his, then there is probably a better chance. I think that marriage blessed in a church and maintaned, has a better chance too.
2006-12-03 20:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by schmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋