I have a really serious question even though it's one my partner and I laugh about but I don't have a clitoris. At least not one that he can find. Is this nornal. Do any of you girls out there have the same problem?
2006-12-03 20:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well I guess your not that picture perfect, are you?
2006-12-03 20:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your clitoris will be there, hiding under your clitoral hood. Yours may be a small clitoris, but they are not normally very large (about like a pea) so do not worry, it will still produce the same sensations for you. You may also have ahesions between your clitoral glans (the head of your clitoris) and your clitoral hood. If this is the case, you should go to a doctor to arrange to have these adhesions broken in order to liberate your clitoral glans. The glans should then be visible when the hood is pulled back. It should look like a miniature penis head, with a distinct groove round the basal rim. Good hunting!
2006-12-04 11:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen many women's genitals professionally and can say that the variety in them is staggering. On the specifics of clitoral anatomy I have seen 2 inch ridges that the owners have either loved or hated and have seen tiny clitorises that are no more than a grain of rice in size and which are lost in the folds of a micro hood. Yours will be there, don't worry. Easiest way to confirm things is to massage the area by hand or with a muscle massager and when it feels delightful or too intense to bare you have found her
2006-12-04 07:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should know the answer to this yourself ... and if you do not ... then you need to get exploring girl!! Grab yourself a little mirror ... and a glass of wine might help (if ur of age, of course!). Women should be familiar with their own bodies, don't ever expect a man to help you with that!! You should learn yourself first, and that will only make you better at telling him what you like! If you're uncomfortable at first, try a nice silky scarf ... and gently rub it between your legs until you are feeling aroused ... at that point, you should be able to find your clitoris if it is there! (and perhaps you will learn to satisfy yourself in the process). Hope this helps ......... :-)
2006-12-04 06:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's not just hidden behind a big hood? I mean, I haven't really heard of people having this problem, but it's not exactly something I could verify without seeing it in person, so I would urge you to have your gynecologist take a look!
(When you are sexually aroused, he still cannot find any evidence of a clitoris?)
2006-12-04 04:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok first all women have diffrent size clits its normal im sur eyou have one its just small. i also have a small clit and does your bf no where its supose to be? are you aware of where its supose to be? not being dumb or anything but maybe your looking in the wrong spot. some women have a small clit with kind of a big hood meaning its kind of hiding here is a good link to help and it has alot of information on it with pics but its black and white pics that you would see in a book not hard porn type pics so i hope this helps
2006-12-04 11:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of you people blaming the partner need to give your head a shake.
If she can't find it, how is he supposed to?
In response to the poster, its almost certainly there somewhere, but very little of it may be extending to the outside of your body (much of it is on the inside).
You need to hunt for it on your own, then show your partner.
2006-12-04 16:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have an area toward the front of your opening that gets tender when rubbed hard ?
Thats the only suggestion that I can make. Hopefully some of the others can help you more :)
2006-12-04 04:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you do have one just your partner can't find it. If you really want to know if you have one or not go see your OB/GYN. He/she can probably tell you if you have one or not. Good Luck and Happy Holidays!
2006-12-04 04:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-04 04:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by jae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just a very small person and its small. i've been told the same. but that hasn't stopped men from finding it so maybe your just with the wrong person if he doesn't know where to touch you.
2006-12-04 04:07:53 · answer #11 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋