Would you consider me homosexual?

Question

I am a male who finds the male form interesting and attractive in a nonsexual way (like a sculpture). Also, I find physically attractive men more interesting. Nevertheless, unlike my perspective of the female sex organs, I find male sex organs disgusting. Also, I don't get the emotional rush that I get when I talk to attractive women.

Answer 1

As a heterosexual man, it just sounds like you are interested in the male form, and that's all. What would you rather look at anyway - a healthy male body or a guy with a huge beer gut? Its normal to want to see the healthy. If you are not having sexual thoughts about the men, you are not a homosexual.

Answer 2

You don't have to be an architect to appreciate a fine building and you don't have to be gay to appreciate a fine man, so purely on the evidence you've provided I'd say no. However, the fact that you're questioning your sexuality suggests that you're not 100% certain of your attraction to women; maybe this is a self-confidence issue? As others have said only you can answer your question; I don't think it would do any harm to maybe experiment a bit, and see f you find male sex organs so 'disgusting' in the flesh, so to speak...

Answer 3

I believe that admiring beauty in its every form is normal, it's called aesthetic sense; I'm a woman and that doesn't mean that I don't admire the beauty of a well sculptured female body, as in fact I do. On the other hand I feel disgusted at the idea of touching a woman or having anything to to with her sex organs, I'm attracted to men and only to them. Beauty is a universal concept and has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Therefore I think you're perfectly straight.

Answer 4

I believe that you just appreciate the male form.

Personally speaking as a gay man I often comment on attractive women when I'm down the pub with my "straight" mates which often results in comments such as, "are you on the turn?" No I just appreciate good looking women, I don't have any sexual feelings towards them.

Enjoy the Male and Female form mate.

Answer 5

Your not gay...gay guys know they're gay, just like you know you feel an emotional rush when you talk to attractive women...there's just so much pressure and attention in this society about homosexuality, that if a guy sees another guy and recognizes something aesthetic he's automatically worried that it means something. If your still wondering, ask yourself which would you like to smell (like on the neck right below the ear), a pretty girl or a guy. If you can't concieve of doing that to a guy, then your definately not gay.

Answer 6

Noone can tell you whether you are homosexual or not - it's something you have to work out and understand within yourself.

Admiring the human form does not necessarily mean that there is any emotional or physical connection and doesn't need to be linked to sexuality. If you are thinking about it, then spend the time and think honestly and deeply about your reactions and what they really mean.

Answer 7

Sounds like you may be questioning it yourself. Not a bad things as many people are Bi, or gay. To a complete straight guy I am assuming he would think you were gay. But me, as a women, I can see you as being Bi-sexual in a way. Just the way that you talk about a mans body, even if it isn't about his privates.

Answer 8

Well, if the male sex organ doesn't do it for you, chances are you're not gay. I reckon appreciating the male form just means you can like what you see in the mirror. Don't worry, be happy. :)

Answer 9

no I don't think you're a homosexual. I am and I find female bodies attractive in a nonsexual way---same thing.

Answer 10

Your description sounds straight but the fact that YOU are questioning yourself leads me to believe there is something else going on in your heart/head. Maybe you should spend some time thinking things over.