friends please help !?

Question

i need help ???
i want to know why can't a male & female be close friends
why do the male always want something more then a friend
he is confusing me ?? This make me hate him.

and he is married

Answer 1

Hate him. Its your choice after all.
Make it a point next time that you are only friends and not lovers.

Answer 2

I think he has received mixed signals or confused some of the signals and feels that he can proceed .. best thing is to put a stop to his wants right at the beginning ... Its a no go and leave it like it is.
I think the best thing that you might tell him is that he must back off and leave it alone all you want is a friendship and thats it.
If you let him know straight up then maybe he will get the point.
I sincerely hope it works for you.
Good luck
Maybe he feels that he can make a lasting impression but he doesn't get that don't want that.
Let him know......In a very straightforward discussion on where your boundaries are.

Answer 3

Not at all! males also have female friends! Not all men really needed only male friends. That is gender discrimination already. You just misinterpreted him. Or you might just have met him and you want to be instantly become close to him that is a problem you know. Men enjoy being with other guys because they enjoy things together and their passion meets. Say for example their passion for basketball and soccer or online video games. Or they are both a fan or an admirer for one common thing usually girls. That is why they are close but it doesn't meant that he had to befriend only those of the same gender. Maybe you just don't have something in common or you are both exact opposites or what. Ask youself.
Why don't you reserxh his likes and try to support them and like them as well. THEN talk to him about that. You might attract his attention and eventually as you keep doing that you'll bring yourself closer to him. You see... You need to have an effort to bfriend someone and be close to him. Discover and explore him. See his other self. His unknown to you that can magnetized him you.
And I tell you never hate him. Anyway, he is a man.... and men are instinctively MAN. Thats our role in this world. You females are the object of our desire just as much you to us! Why broke the law of nature. Don't hate. Men loved Women and we love them for being females and not friends alone.