They are all older in their twenties. . .just wondering what others do in this situation?
2006-12-03 17:37:32 · 14 answers · asked by fannie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I suppose he will know what his kids like and you will know what your kids like so the shopping might work out that way, but I feel both of your names should go on the package to all the kids. It shows you two are united and the step is accepting of the spouses children.
2006-12-03 17:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy gift for all . u are a family. it dosent have to break the bank but buying gift for his kids is a nice gesture and shows u wanna be a part of their lives.
2006-12-04 01:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by blueygirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy them together - that's how you get to know them better is when the two of you shop together. Then when birthday time rolls around you have an idea about his kids and he yours.
2006-12-04 01:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by miladybc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
discuss with hubby. You both could buy gifts for all your 'kids' together (1 present each from the both of you).
2006-12-04 01:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should both buy the gift together and send them to all the kids together. sign the cards with both your names, after all you are all family now.
2006-12-04 01:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by justadream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the "hers/his" routine? Are you married or not? Buy gifts for all the kids and leave the "his/hers" thing at the door.
2006-12-04 01:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, dont seperate gift giving. The two of you should pick out presents together for all the kids. Its not "Yours, mine, its Ours."
2006-12-04 01:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy for both your and his kids... he and his kids will love it
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2006-12-04 01:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should buy presents for both. you want the family to come together not be segregated...if you just buy for yours, his will feel left out. you want them to know you are trying and want them to respect you and feel like you are a part of the family. this will make them feel that you thought of them enough to buy them presents too.
2006-12-04 01:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by frizzy_ghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you should buy gifts for all your kids.
2006-12-04 01:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by BMC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋