My boyfriends is reccently had a female friends - a backpacker- moved into his house and they've been spending most of time together. he's cooking for her everyday and picking up her always(He never cooked for me or picked up me. Always I did for him) - she often ringed him(even when he was with me in might) for picking up. He's refused to stay in my home now and told me the girl said she scared be along. And i barely had time to be with just him because she is always around - unless on his bed. ****!
They were always laughing but no body noticed me even at most time. I've pay for most of our food and wine, plants for filling his garden, cooking for his family when ever I came to his... but i've been yelled 6 times since she moved into his house last month. And he keep to tell me that I didn't undersatnd their friendship.
Can anybody tell me what I should do? Is this really friendship?
2006-12-03 17:37:29 · 4 answers · asked by Need ur help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I may not be Dr.Phil, but to me this seems more than just friendship. Look set him straight. Be honest with him. If you got yelled at 6 times because you were expressing how you felt than you can tell he is hiding something. Like I said.......this is a little more than just "friendship". The girl might be a friend with benefits and if he is hiding something than you will know right then and there. If he is doing this to you, he aint even worth it. This isn't love. I am not sayin DUMP HIM, I am sayin find out what's going on between them. If he loves you, he will talk to you about it and not yell at you. Hope everything works out. Good Luck!!
2006-12-03 17:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Avie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's friendship alright. The kind that is sung to the tune of the bedsprings creaking.
I'd suggest that you stop paying for his stuff, stop cooking for his family and stop being a doormat. Go out and find someone who will respect you enough to be honest with you.
2006-12-04 01:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gotta agree with "LIZ" on this one. sista dont let him use u that way. kick his a** to the curb
2006-12-04 01:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang girl are you blind?
2006-12-04 01:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋