i dident grow up with my father and am dating a man 12yrs older than me, 22/33 i call him daddy and hes fine with it, he calls me babygirl, princess, angel the whole works, the only thing is that he is not fully mine [married w/kids] but weve been together for over a year and spend a whole bunch of time together, but am afraid ill end up getting hurt, i really love him and dont want to not be with him because he is everything that i never had....is it even worth contuining? for my own sake?
2006-12-03 17:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by athf78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOT you might get hurt, YOU will and you deserve to !! It is not his poor wife's or childrens fault that you did not grow up with a father but you are involving them just the same. How dare you ??? He is married for god sake !! You obviously don't know the real meaning of love or you would not be seeing a married man. He is only using you, he will not leave his family for you !! And even if he did he will also cheat on you !! So you LOOSE all round. Now consider if it's worth continuing or not !!
2006-12-03 18:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! I didn't grow up with my father either and I don't and won't date aman who's married and has the sage of my dad. Yes you will end up getting hurt. This won't lead you to anywhere good. And believe me, you don't need him for your sake...be strong. Stick to your mom or a family memeber if you want parental affection but not a stranger. Listen to what the majority says here. It might hurt but if you don't listen, it will hurt 100x more later.
2006-12-04 01:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will end up getting hurt. He's married!!! There are plenty of single guys out there. Find one and leave the taken ones alone!!!! You grew up without a father...if you broke their marriage up their kids would too. Get out of this situation and find someone who will be faithful to you.
2006-12-04 01:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by fungirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump his @ss the only thing a married man wants is a strange piece of @ss, i know a guy that cheated on his wife with the same girl for 5 years and he finally told her he loves his wife.
2006-12-04 01:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not good having an affair with a married man or woman. put yourself in his shoes, now how would you feel? are you insecure about yourself? if not then why would you choose to mess with a married man? how do you think his wife feel, or do you only care about your own feelings?...remember what goes around, do come back
2006-12-04 01:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER EVER EVER get involved with a married man..... he's just using you.... there's plenty of single men out there that would be everything you want a man to be.
2006-12-04 01:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by toughtimes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE'S MARRIED WITH KIDS, YOUR BEING USED. HE LIKES BEING MARRIED AND HAVING YOU ON THE SIDE.
2006-12-04 01:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you think?... you're his toy for now....
2006-12-04 01:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Morena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Princess..............you're not too bright, are you?????
2006-12-04 01:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋