2006-12-03 17:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that if she really means what she says about being okay with it, then there's no problem.
2006-12-03 17:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by philosophy_evolves 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on both the woman, and man in question.
I have no problem with bisexuals or their mates. It depends on what everyone considers a marraige is. If everyone is okay with the bisexual male having sex with other males then great. Or if the bisexual male promises to be faithful to the woman and keeps the promise, also great. I'd only have a problem with it if the woman is with him because she believes it's a monogamous relationship despite the bisexuality and it isn't or she's just with him because she knows he's "not going to change" for her and accepts the fact that he's always going to be with a guy and her and doesn't put her first though she's his primary love.
This isn't to say I think bisexuals are voracious horny people, but It's happened before (to me, at least) where people have had the wool pulled over their eyes by bi guys justifying their cheating by saying "I'm attracted to both sexes, so I should GET both." That kind of thinking, to me at least, isn't acceptable in a marraige unless the partner is okay with the terms of the marraige beforehand. Otherwise, the marraige has the potential of any other good marraige out there.
2006-12-04 01:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by KitsuneBoi85 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a couple of things
1. How much do you love him and vice a versa.
2. Bisexuals do love threesomes, ( iam bi so i know) would it bother you to see another man putting his penis in your mans backside and vice a versa or would it turn you on and you join in.
3. Is your man bi or gay.
4. Does your guy like a penis more or a vagina, VERY IMPORTANT TO KNOW THIS!!!
Besides all these things yes it's ok, me and my wife have been married 20 years, shes my best friend and my life, but i prefer vagina to penis.
2006-12-04 02:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the world of her. It's wonderful to be open and accepting and caring within a relationship.
Remember- just because her husband is bisexual doesn't mean he doesn't love her or that he isn't monogamous. So basically, I can't see why she wouldnt' be okay with it.
2006-12-04 01:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a woman that can understand her husband...
2006-12-04 01:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Ida 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all it is her relationship,
and frankly it is really none of your business.
if she has the role of being an
' understanding ' spouse , it is their relationship.
if you are asking me to judge her,
sounds like you already have.
if you are her friend,
she should drop you like an old habit.
shame on you !
2006-12-04 04:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has an open mind. everyone is different! each to his or her own, whatever makes ppl happy and fulfilled.
2006-12-04 01:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Myst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will never work. Never!
2006-12-04 04:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋