that won't cause him so much pain afterwards i like missionary but his sciatica plays up ..... please help?
2006-12-03 17:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by tori 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
reverse the order.
learn how to ride.
have a nice day.
2006-12-03 17:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by sharrron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's probably a very individual thing as to what positions are best for a man or woman who has any physical limitations. There are good books that address sex and aging, but I can't find one I've had. Suggestions for positions are in these books. Also, check medical encyclopedias, and websites such as WebMd. The latter offers quite a lot on the subject of sex and on aging. But generally, you'll just have to experiment to find the best for you. One I can suggest is the man sitting and the woman backing up to him, either on a chair or bed. Any position that results in less impact is good. If you can afford it, I suggest the "sex swing" offered by various retail outlets such as Lane Direct and Adam & Eve. This can be quite easy on both partners, depending how it used. Hope you find you way.
Of course there are alternatives available to you both. Mutual materbation is one. Oral sex--cunnilingus and fellatio--another. This may not be as satisfying, but I suggest it should not be ruled out.
2006-12-04 01:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have a good firm bed or try puting something on the carpet and trying these positions.
I have been lucky and never suffered much from back pain, however I have found lying on my side and entering from behind is one of the Laziest positions and because this puts pressure on the woman's G spot it is usually a favoured position. Not sure how this will feel for you husband he may need to get a pillow under his side to take the stress of his spine.
You could also try lying your husband on his back and you gently straddle him he can stimulate your breasts and get to admire you at the same time.. Ask him what he thinks will work for him.
Have plenty of gentle fore-play so you don't have to make a marathon out of the intercourse part of your love-making.
2006-12-04 01:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember hearing about how JFK and Marilyn Monroe used to do it cowgirl in a warm bath because it was better for his back. Hope that helps, it's all I can think of.
2006-12-04 01:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lie on the bed, he stand up in front of the bed.
2006-12-04 01:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by hvjhv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
place a pillow under his back...the ride your pony
2006-12-04 01:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ride tha pony, ride tha pony, ride it ride it ride it ride it
2006-12-04 05:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doggy?
2006-12-04 01:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dannai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋