2006-12-03 16:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In his kissing.
One may still have sex with his spouse even when he is not in love with her, as much of the sexual desire.
But as for kissing, it is an act of love, as one would not want to kiss someone who he is not interested in.
2006-12-03 18:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, basically, she left him, married someone else and then found out the new guy was no prince? Your husband is a fool. She's probably happy enough when her husband is giving her what she wants, and only "loves" yours (or other men) when she is feeling ignored. Point this out to your husband, and tell him that because he fell for this, you've lost respect for him. Tell him you want to be married to someone who is going to love you for you and won't be so eager to let another woman invade your lives. You say this to make him dislike her. My guess is that he said those things because he was so flattered by her attention. It would be very hard to ignore someone who had left you for someone else coming back and saying they regretted the decision. However, many men would have cheated and he didn't. That tells me that he really DOES love you but was caught up in the flattery of the moment. I would stay married if he starts to see her for what she is ... a troublemaker ... but not if he's going to keep her on pedestal. Good luck.
2016-03-13 03:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does still love you I don't really think that you will be on Yahoo answers asking how, you will know. I know daily that my husband loves me and he always makes it a point to tell me. Life is way to short to not be in the best relationship possible.
2006-12-03 17:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Does he make an effort for you? Whether it's to give you a kiss when he walks in the door, or tell you how great that sweater looks on you...the fact that he's putting in the effort says something. Throw on a nice neglige one night if you're feeling you don't get enough attention--he'll come around.
2006-12-03 17:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by MACmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he put your needs first? do u communicate, does he value your opinion about things? does he do the things a husband does around the home? does he listen to u when u speak, or when theres a problem, or shut u down as if he isn't interested anymore? does he put u first or does he seem to have other priorities.does he compliment u, or find falt with u? is he overly critical of u, and can't seem to find anything about u he likes? or does he apprecite u and tells u so?
2006-12-04 02:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to ask. It's just like falling in love, you just know.(I've been married almost 18 yrs, I say it's like fine wine it just keeps better with time)
2006-12-03 16:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in his kiss sweetie.
I'm not kidding.
2006-12-03 16:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ways he use to talk with u.How offen he used to make sex with u?When u need sex n he always say no.Than u have to be carefull.
2006-12-03 18:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his actions . my opion?
2006-12-03 17:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋