does the person you're with now know about it?
I dated this guy for 2yrs about 13 yrs ago. He is now married to my best friend from High School. I don't talk to her much anymore but I do talk to him.
2006-12-03 16:46:10 · 13 answers · asked by ~B~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She was my best friend in High School. I think she feels weird about talking to me cause she's married to him. We talk occasionally but I talk to him more. My husband knows about it and is fine w/ it. I mean it was a very long time ago. She knows we talk, but I'm not sure if he has told her how much exactly. She cheated on him, and he called me to see if I knew anything about it and we have been talking ever since. They are working things out, but she did get mad when she found out that he had told me about her cheating. I hadn't talked to him in like 3 yrs b4 he called me.
2006-12-03 17:00:50 · update #1
My ex husband stays at our house when he comes to visit the kids. There's no reason to hold grudges. A lot of people find it strange that we allow him to stay in our home, but we're all adults and he's just here to see the kids, both of whom are grown, so we don't see anything wrong with it. I have been married to my current hubby for 10 great years and we are soul mates, so nothing can come between us!
2006-12-03 16:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
High School...13 years ago...ex boyfriend running back telling you he got cheated on... Sounds like someone's stuck in a time warp. Honey, be in the now and let this guy and his wife do the same. Don't let yourself get sucked back into the teenage melodrama. You're a big girl now!
2006-12-04 01:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better to be honest with your significant other if you are talking to an ex. I dont really talk with any of my former girlfriends, but my wife still talks every now and then with her ex. He is a nice guy who is now married to another woman. It is possible to be friends with an ex, but like i said before, don't keep it from your significant other. Also, if your other is uncomfortable with the situation, it is your responsibility to tend to your significant other than your ex.
2006-12-04 00:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband was talking to one of his ex girlfriend and of course I put a stop to it.....They started bringing up things in the past he told me which was good but honestly you never know if those felling would come back. So with that its better to leave the past in the past. You don't want to hurt anyone.
2006-12-04 00:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by speedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person i was with did know i spoke with my ex. you should talk to your best friend. after all, doesn't a best friend mean a great deal to you? besides, you dated him 13 years ago. she must know you talk to him. that must make the whole situation uncomfortable for everyone concerned. try getting to know your best friend again. i'm sure you will feel better.
2006-12-04 01:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one of those rare cases where my ex husband and I are like best friends. The man I'm with now knows all about it. Its no big deal, I have nothing to hide.
2006-12-04 00:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex wife is one of my closest friends and she has become my fiances best friend to a point of being one of her brides maids at our wedding. It is good. It is not even like ex's anymore just friends.
2006-12-04 00:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Stage Directions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermmmmmmm... ur ex is married to ur bestfriend??? that sounds hurting.. hmm... its nothing wrong to talk to ur ex.. but u say u dont talk much to his wife.. which is ur bestfriend.. so its not very good. u might make her suspect ur goin after her hubby. the best is to avoid private meeting between both of u or ...... u know.. talking without her knowledge..
2006-12-04 00:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are good to have except if its gona cause problems like if you are keeping it a secret from say his wife ??
2006-12-04 00:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea my girlfriend knows i talk to my ex, all of my ex's are my best friends lol.
2006-12-04 00:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Daggy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋