this is about a married couple , but the spouse is cheating. How do i get him back in a smooth relationship with interest in me ? What are the best strategies ?
2006-12-03 16:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by Cyncon Lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the best strategy is to leave him alone, if he doesn't have any respect for his relationship with his wife and the vows he took, then why would he have any respect for you, you would just be a distraction to take his mind off his problems, but you need to get having any kind of relationship with him out of your head and instead find a guy who is single and available....
2006-12-03 17:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not clear on what you are saying...are you interested in a married man and you are not his spouse? if so then your best strategy would be to stay away from married men. If however, you are the spouse, and your husband cheated on you, well, personally, I would divorce him, and find someone else who does not cheat (despite 'statistics' and 'they' say...many married man DO NOT cheat) It is a trust breaker and puts your heart and most especially your health on the line. (hope you have been tested for all STDs) Cheaters don't deserve a second chance and you deserve better!
2006-12-04 00:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When dealing with a cheating spouse, there is no strategy. He or she is unhappy with their current relationship with the other partner. If marriage counseling is not an option, then you need to sit with him and find out why. Let them know this is not okay and you want to resolve this issue. Don't give up if it is worth savung.
2006-12-04 00:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see first this is "about a married couple" then it becomes about a relationship with you...so are we correct in assuming that YOU are this guys spouse? If you are you have some choices to make. The first step is communication. You have to let him know that you know and discuss where to go from there.
2006-12-04 00:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. Never get involved with a married man. No morales. Not good for you or him or the other. It is a real mess. Steer clear. why would you want someone who does not belong to you? Think very carefull about this. I think in your heart you know what to do. Leave.
2006-12-04 00:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by vennie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to deal with him ???????
When he's sleeping tonigh, make a fist and punch him in the balls as hard as you can.
That's how.
2006-12-04 00:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops
2006-12-04 00:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by tukmol1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in therapy...quick!
2006-12-04 00:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nuttie Nettie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the h e l l is wrong with you?
2006-12-04 00:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
want not touch not. this one is married. my opion?
2006-12-04 00:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋