Hello. I've never been on here before. I was just wondering if there's anyone that can help me. See my husband is, well what I beleive, a compulsive liar. I always find him in lies and not telling me things, its pretty constant he deos it like 2 to 3 times a month. i was just wondering if someone has any advice on how to deal with this. I'm on the edge I just don't know what to do anymore. Any advice/opinions would be great. Thank you.
2006-12-03 16:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by keltey86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't say for sure...But, I did marry a CON-ARTist (unknowingly, of course). Check in to all things financial. Follow your gut instinct. If something does not sound right or feel right you have the right to check it out. It's hard to say what is real and what is not with someone like this, but the things you can protect...DO!!!! Like yourself, your finances, and your health.
2006-12-06 11:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by sandy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem with my husband before we were married. He used to lie about everything and hide things from me. I just got tired of it and I told him that we can't be together if he is going to lie all the time. We broke up for like a month, and we got back together. After we got back together, he changed. He realized that he shouldn't lie to the person he loves. Now, he tells things that he never would have told me before. In my opinion, I think you should talk to him about it and tell him that it makes you insecure when you know he's lying and that he can tell you anything, no matter what it is. It will take some time, but if he really wants to, he can gradually lie less and less. Good luck!
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2006-12-04 01:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people lie so much, that they actually BELIEVE everything they are saying. My X husband used to look me right in the face and make ME feel guilty. And to be honest, even when I'd confront him about it, He'd STILL insist he was right. Made ME feel I was losing my mind! Now that's a real extreme case, but hopefully you can just confront your husband and tell him and hopefully he'll understand.
2006-12-04 02:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can come right out and say to him, honey, I think you're lieing. Not in a mean way but, in a direct way. Try to nip this in the bud before it goes on too long. Meanwhile, he thinks he pulled YET another one over on you. He may think you're thick as a brick. Cut this quick honey. Good luck.
2006-12-04 00:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, once you lose your trust in someone, it is tough to regain it. And trust is important especially in a marriage. You need to confront him on this issue, and let him decide his own fate within the relationship. If he admits, then maybe you can still trust him. otherwise, better stay on your toes.
2006-12-04 00:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a liar you can never belive this you ought to know by now. my opion?
2006-12-04 00:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋