when i was cleaning the house one day, i ran upon 3 porno dvd's that my boyfriend bought sometime ago. when commenting to him that i found them and why he had those versions specifically he replied(very defensively) that there was a special on them and he didnt realize what it was until after a nonrefundable purchase(and he thought he should mention that he wasnt gay even though i hadnt). well i let it go until we got into an argument that resulted in me putting him out with his belongings; and again i ran upon the rest of his porn dvd's(his whole collection)that was only this shemale type porn(men surgically altered to look like a female every where except the private area). Should i be concerned about his sexual orientation now? Cause he wants to get back with me.
2006-12-03 16:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He sounds straight with a fetish... There are lots of straight men who date people like this. They feel their normal. After all they look female. It's just the whole taboo part of it that makes it a fetish. Even gay people have a hard time understanding this at times. " It's perfectly normal" Don't worry. He's just watching porn. I'm sure he was probably curious about how it all seemed.
2006-12-03 16:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ida 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 14:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Rhoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem here is a lack of communication and education. There are a lot of *straight* men that are "tranny chasers." You don't really need to worry about his sexuality. If watching porn in general is crossing the line, then he needs to know that. If you're ok with him watching porn in general, then let him watch it. You don't really have anything to worry about. It sounds like something else might be the cause of the recent breakup. If so, then that/those issue(s) need to be resolved as well.
2006-12-03 16:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're thinking of getting back together with your GAY boyfriend. Yes, he's gay. The majority of men are disgusted by penis. Second, you've had several fights where you threw him out. I've never had a fight last long enough with my husband that he even slept on the couch. Lastly, why are you taking relationship advice from people on yahoo? Have you read these previous answers?
2006-12-03 16:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeah,I think he's curious about males and females at the same time,He wants something out of the ordinary.
2006-12-03 16:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might ask you to bust out the strapon one night and make him the lady. If you think you'd be okay with that, get back together with him. If the thought makes your skin crawl, then let sleeping dogs lie.
2006-12-03 16:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by jon 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about anyone's sexual orientation. However, I am wondering about your mindset if you put him out and are still thinking about getting back with him.
2006-12-03 16:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nuttie Nettie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be concerned if the shemale was still attached to the dvd's at the time...
2006-12-03 16:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by steviewag 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have been concerned the FIRST time.You "Man" has a preference for shemales.That makes him gay,weird gay but gay none the less.What the heck does it take for you to get the clues?I had one the minute I read your question.
2006-12-03 16:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He is either having questions about himself, is curious/fascinated, or is gay/bisexual.
For the record, I know a straight trans-sexual man.
2006-12-03 16:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋