I am 16 and my ex is now 21. Anyone who knew about us said it was wrong but I never cared and he never touched me. The only problem was my best friend has a crush on him and well they kissed. But I don't care all that much because I love him and she is my best friend. I care so much about them both but at this point I'm in deep and don't know what to do any more andy advice?
2006-12-03 16:25:54 · 16 answers · asked by Penguin_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I know you don't want to hear this but he is too old for ya! I suggest that you pick a new hobby, join a new club or focus on your education. This will soon past just give it some time and space.
2006-12-03 16:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't care thay your "best friend" kissed your ex? Boy, you are 16! Time to find a new best friend cause real friends don't do that to each other. As for the guy, you need to move on cause first of all, he's to old for you and i don't buy that "he never touched me" crap! The main reason a 21 year old guy would be with a 16 year old girl is for sex. So being with him is wrong and not to mention, ILLEGAL for him! You're very young and most people your age have to learn things the hard way, so save yourself a lot of headache and dump them both! Trust me, you'll laugh at this when you're 25!
2006-12-04 00:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget him and move on ,my dear....no love was there where both were not involved.
in love both attract each other...in ur case,,this attraction is a one way thing ,.there is lack of understanding...how can u expect to stay happy with a person your whole life if there is no happiness or intimacy now?
this is not love...its obsession with someone u fancy. there is no care,no understanding,no trust---somethings which are very very important for love.
so dont bother urself telling your self that u love him. love is a the state of mind,...it will turn the way u want it to...
u r just a year elder to me...do u know...we are making our lives this moment...its time that u forgot ur love life and made ur life...remember...this was a quote i found somewhere---
"30 YEARS FROM NOW...
IT WOULD'NT MATTER WHAT JEANS U WORE...
HOW UR HAIR LOOKED...
OR THE SHOES U WERE IN...
BUT WHAT WOULD MATTER IS WHAT U LEARNT...
AND HOW U USED IT."
so thats it....tomorrow whether u will be truly happpy or not...will go to rocking expensive lavish partes...wear b'tiful clothes will be decided by the efforts u put into ur studies NOW
so concentrate on ur studies and let go of these idiots who'll never give u anything but sd memories...remember...love is in the state of mind...u can turn ur way however u like...
LIFE IS NOTHING BUT A PANORAMA OF GOOD CHOICES...
2006-12-04 01:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by catty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you love your self first of all. Think, not only you can love others she have a rite to love him too, but see the difference between you and her or him before u said it is LOVE. Bcos there is long way for you to go and learnt about what is LOVE about and the deep meaning in it.
2006-12-04 00:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by ocean 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think you are in deep shi.t. but it is indeed a problem. so your ex kissed your best friend. and you say that you love him. but does he still love you, or want to be with you? if not then you might be worrying about something that's not even worth worrying about. remember, he IS your ex now. and he can date or kiss whoever he wants to. unfortunately even your best friend.
2006-12-04 01:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who knew about you said it was wrong, huh? Well, it looks to me like their point is proven. I wish that you could come back and read what you just wrote when you are 30...then you will see how foolish you sound. Let me ask you this...Do you think that either one of them loves you?
2006-12-04 00:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aahhh!! i need more information. youre in deep sh** why? because hes so much older or because you dont care that he kissed your frriend? did he kiss her because she's easier than you? it sounds like it and i also think that while she may be YOUR best friend youre NOT hers or she wouldnt have even kissed him, also are you sure thats all they did? i think theyre both lying to you and you should dump em both!
2006-12-04 00:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by nightyzz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if he kissed youre friend when you two where together before what makes you think he won't do it again. Sounds to me like this love is one sided(you). He wants the cake and icing too. are you ready to be hurt because that is what he wil do to you. Please don't get involved with him again.
2006-12-04 00:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by karen v 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u luv him and trust him and ur best friend then dont worrie about it but you need to have the same respect that u have for them right back for you so take my advice
2006-12-04 00:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know exactly were your coming from, and I've been there to. who have you know en longer? that's the one to keep. boyfriends come and go, but replacing your best friend isn't that easy, even when you 2 have background.
2006-12-04 00:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋