Well, not mentioning there name, she kinda comes off in a bi way. She says ''I love you'' But I dont know if thats in a "friend" way. Someone answer me because I am VERY confused.
Btw, I have known this friend for a long time and it would be hard to ask her, If you think she is bi, tell me someways to ask. =l
2006-12-03 16:10:18 · 5 answers · asked by Veronica ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You won't know unless you ask. You don't assume someone's sexuality. If you have known this person forever, then it should be relatively easy. To make your asking the question easy, this is how you can ask it. Sit the person down, go crab some Mcdonalds or Wendy's or something. And while you are waiting for your food or if you are about to sit down and eat, tell your friend that one of your other friends that you recently introduced him/her to wanted to know if he/she was bi. You must be tactful when you ask this questions. As for the I love you is concerned. Don't read more into something that is not there. If she loves you in a sisterly way, then return her "I love you" with one in return.
2006-12-03 16:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Vivian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only way in my opinion is to come out hard and then offer to kiss her on her chick. Of course, u don't wonna do that since u r not bi but just try that and see how she responds. If she turns out not to be bi, you can be always get away by saying next morning that u were proly drunk and don't remember anything.
2006-12-03 16:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by MSV_MGT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time you are hanging out simply comment on what an attractive female that passes by. Do something that breaks the ice and shows her that you are alright with her bisexuality like comment on how positive same sex marriage is or something along those lines. Dont come out and out her but instead casually show her that you are open and accepting. If she is or isnt then that is for her to decide to on her own if she wants to let you know.
2006-12-03 16:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by spunklemunk 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the only way you will know for sure is to just ask her. It sounds like you may have mixed feelings about the issue. and about her. you need to figure out your own feelings and thoughts. seek counseling if you don't have someone else to talk to. a person can love different people in different ways. relax. don't be so paranoid.
2006-12-03 16:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by katlady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your close friend, ask her. If she's not a close friend, it's not your business if she doesn't come out and say so.
Don't worry about her approaching you romantically unless and until she does. If she does and you aren't inclined that way, say so.
There's really nothing else to it.
2006-12-03 16:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Leo F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋