ok well I sometimes feel like I like girls but I don't think I do.
And i don't feel this way about my friends. I don't kno how to really explain it, it is a werid feeling and i don't wanna feel like this. Well is it just my hormones or is it that im that way? (GOD I HOPE NOT) Don't be mean bout it just answer it please. And i need someone to talk to.
2006-12-03 15:36:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
are you saying that sometimes you think you are attracted to another girl but you don't really like girls sexually?
Or are you saying you are fighting a feeling in you that truly draws you to other women?
There is a difference. The first is just human nature - any person cna be attracted to any other person. It's just a feeling of being pulled to them for whatever reason and there is nothing wrong with that.
But if it is the latter one then you are fighting something that is a part of you. And if that's what you want to do that is fine too. But it's something you need to explore - i mean by talking about it.
i am a bi female - and if you would like to talk more deeply than a Q&A forum allows please contact me through the contact page of my bio. If not that is cool too. i wish you the best. :-)
2006-12-03 15:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by purple dove 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is just to let your feelings Flow and see where it takes you. Now when you say you think you like girls you have to look deeper into that and see if you just think a girl is pretty or you think she's pretty and you wanna get with her, which is two different things. It also wouldn't hurt to experiment either. Now the fact that you don't want to feel this way could be getting in the way of how you really feel. You could be bisexual but the fact you don't want to feel this way could put you in a state of denial. If your scared trust me i understand where you are coming from. I'm a 23 year old Black bisexual male who grew up in a rough area so I know its scary realizing you might be attracted to the same sex along with the opposite sex. To make a long answer short lol. Just chill and relax and let your feelings take you.
2006-12-03 15:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lamarr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be. Adolescence is a weird time for most people. You might be bi. You might be curious. You might just be at that confused experimental stage and turn out to be straight. You may realize that you don't like guys at all and are actually lesbian. Just take it a day at a time and one day you might have a better idea of what your sexuality is.
2006-12-03 15:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you are bi-curious. As you start branching out in your sex life and trying new things, your body starts to react to the same sex. Sometimes the pull is strong and sometimes it's just a passing thought. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with you if you're wondering what it might be like to be with a woman. It doesn't make you evil, just normal.
2006-12-03 15:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by princessslave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is not black and white. It does not fall into neat boxes as much as we'd like it to. It is a lot of gray area. You can be attracted to the same gender for different reasons. You can be attracted to a girl physically only, or emotionally only or both. Sometimes having a very close relationship with a female best friend can bring up that attraction because of the intimacy and comfort level.
We should not spend so much time trying to fit ourselves into these neat labels. Believe me from my personal experience, it goes all over the map, and I've at one point just stopped trying to fit myself into a category, but just love and enjoy whoever I am with at the moment. I mean who cares about labels, that's pretty much for other people's satisfaction.
It is through your own relationships and experiences with whoever you're with that teaches you a lot about who you really are and what makes you happiest the most. I don't hate men, but men are pretty dry emotionally and think a lot in their heads rather than their hearts. I love being with feminine energy. Women are nurturing, loving, open, emotional, warm, beautiful, graceful, and so on. That is what I'm attracted to and where I am the most comfortable with.
So don't try to analyize it too much, but rather allow yourself to explore who you are when you allow yourself to be open to possibilities to learn more about who you are. Believe me, this does not happen overnight. It takes years to finally understand one's own sexuality, where we stand on the scale. There is a scale from one to 10 on sexuality. 1 being the most straight, 10 being the most gay, 5.5 being bisexual 50-50. I consider myself more of on the 7 scale. Does that make sense?
Hope that helps!
2006-12-03 15:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amma's Child 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're here and asking that question you're at least bi. It's not the end of the world...lots of bi people are really happy with their lives.
2006-12-03 15:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your bi your comfortable with either sex and find both sexes attractive ether way its fun .and enjoyable.
2006-12-03 15:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don;t think u r, ur just curious right now, no strings attatched though.
2006-12-03 16:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋