Im 5 weeks pregnant with my second pregnancy ( first was a miscarriage) and me and my baby's father argued all day yesterday and today. I cried so much and I want to know because this happened am I going to have a miscarriage? I havent started bleeding, and I havent been have so painful cramps. But I am having some pains in both my sides like cramping, my breast still are tender and the only time i get sick or nauseous is in the afternoon or evenings, I havent been running to the bathroom every minute though. I now have a headache out of this world but I dont know if its from crying or the pregnancy. Am I just over reacting?? What should I do?
2006-12-03 15:35:16 · 11 answers · asked by Ilovehim 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Calm down and breathe. THe more you stress, the more you worry, then the worse you are going to feel. You aren't bleeding or cramping, so there is no imminent miscarriage. You're pregnant.. you are going to cry, and you'll probably cry a lot. Crying doesn't cause a miscarriage. Relax.
2006-12-03 15:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Franky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably have nothing to worry about. Think about what happened with your last miscarriage. Did you argue? Or was your belly hit by something? Or was it just one of those things? Just try laying in a hot bath, relaxing, and put your mind at ease. Arguments will last only a few minutes and you most likely did nothing to have a miscarriage. But if you're very worried about it, just make an appointment with your OBGYN and have an ultrasound done. But you more than likely have nothing to worry about at all. Just try some relaxation techniques to calm your nerves. The headache could be due to both the crying and the pregnancy, or either one by themselves. Taking some tylenol wont hurt the baby. My sister took some during her pregnancy for headaches and my nephew came out as healthy as can be. I hope you go full term! Best wishes!
2006-12-03 15:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Renee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly understand where you're coming from. I had a miscarriage with my second child and while pregnant with my third I panicked all the time.
It sounds like you're okay. That pain on the sides is normal and you can count on them getting a lot worse since you're having them already. That is from the ligaments stretching as your uterus expands. Eventually a hormone called relaxin will release in your body and that pain will go away.
For now, put some lotion on your hands and slowly rub up and down that ligament. Start at your pubic bone and slowly move to your hip bone. If that bothers you then just get a warm towel or washcloth and put it on the sides. Hopefully that helps. :)
2006-12-03 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read that the more pregnancy symptoms you have e.g. morning(or in your case afternoon) sickness headaches etc. the less likely you are to have a miscarriage because the pregnancy hormone is working well. Stress however from your argument is not good for you or the baby...you need to focus on that...that's what i have to do if my husband and i argue...i wish you the best of luck..and congrats on your pregnancy!
2006-12-03 15:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go take a warm shower then lay down and rest. Chances are the cramping and headache is from the stress and crying. You need to calm down, I know easier said than done right? Still you really need to talk to yourself and say calm down, this getting so upset isn't good for the baby! Seriously it works, may sound crazy, but works. Ok, now as for your getting sick...hahahaha...yeah morning sickness was derived from mom's to be being sick in the morning...lol...any mom will tell you morning sickness is and can be all day long! Or it can be just at night, or just in the afternoons. It depends. Ok, so go take a warm shower and force yourself to relax. You need to do this for you and your unborn baby's sake. You will be ok as long as you relax!!!!!!!!!!!! Ok, so, go light a candle and relax, ok, everything will be ok.
2006-12-03 15:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by masmalan2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, try to relax, take a bath, breathe, or just sleep. Causing yourself to stress, causes your baby to stress. And believe me, its no fun to have a stressful baby.
Second, no it doesnt mean you will have a mis-carriage, however, since you have already had one, i would suggest, taking it easy, dont talk to your childs father if you are fighting, just relax. And if the pain continues, seek medical attention. Better to be safe then, sorry.
Third, the crying, oh brother it only gets worse, thats your hormones, and believe me, its just begining. Again, just RELAX.
Congrats, and good luck. Just think about you and that baby, not you and him right now...
2006-12-03 15:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by littledsboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to calm down. Some women are beaten during their pregnancy and the baby is fine.
Take a deep breath and go back to a positive, healthy attitude about your baby. You will be fine.
2006-12-03 15:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and him should give each other some time just until you figure out if you want to keep the baby or not.because trust me if you are going to find yourself being around him during the pregnancy then you are going to find yourself having another miscarriage.
2006-12-03 15:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma KI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not an expert or anything but i think that since Ur not bleeding or vomiting profusely that u should be fine. but if Ur that worried and worked up over it go on down to the hospital and they can check u out and be sure that ur ok
2006-12-03 15:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cried like anything my whole pregnancy. my baby is fine.
too strong emotions r not good though. most pregnant women tend to overreact. try and control ur emotions.
2006-12-03 15:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋