I don't know what's wrong with me. I think it's got to do with the relationship that I'm in. Usually to me dateing is just fun and games. I'm not looking for love, I'm not looking for "the one", but I think I might have found love. Well, I thought I did. I kept denying it and stuff and kept waiting for the other end to drop and something terrible to happen. It never did though. So I finially start accepting that I am in love and now all my emotions are all mixed up about him. I'll get irritible with him real easy, I just got pissed off at him because he doesn't really seem to get me. I think I love him but all this stuff is driving me crazy!! I don't know what's happening. I just really want someone to talk to. I wish someone could tell me what's going on.
2006-12-03 15:11:49 · 10 answers · asked by Brandy N 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm 15 and so is he. I'm in 10 grade, he's in 9th because of his late bday. He's 3 months adn 9 days younger than me.
2006-12-03 15:17:04 · update #1
Isn't this what friends are for? Talk to your friends, not us.
2006-12-03 15:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's called hormones. You are at the age where your hormones are raging and don't know what to do. If you are smart you will step back and take a breather. You are too young to be falling in love. What you have now is just a fatuation. I know you might think it is love but, it's really your body getting ready for you to know what love really is. Don't just jump at the first guy that you feel this way about. You need to make sure he is going to be able to support you and a family if you are serious. And at age 15 your body doesn't really know that yet. I know because I thought I was in love and found out the hard way. It was all just physical and sex. And, then here I was with a baby and no one to help with her. I had to struggle all on my own. Please, wait to get serious after you graduate before ruining your life. Believe me after you are 18 you will know when it is true love and not just a feeling of sexual attraction. And don't have sex with a guy just because you like him. Please abstain because even on birthcontrol and hardly any contact you can get PREGNANT. And that means you will have a real baby growing inside of you and then you will really now what hormones are really about. And God doesn't want you to just trash a life. What if your parents had decided to abort you. Just think about it, you wouldn't be her. Also, prayer really helps. God will help you to make the right decision. I learned the hard way and hope you will listen to my advise.
2006-12-03 23:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by been there 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
! I Know you don"t wont to here that your not old enough to love .Were I think you are but the hole thing is that the only way to find out is to do what every one is telling you to do .but I know that's not what you are looking for right now. So check this out, you are getting mad at him allot right! and you are trying not to show what is really going on right!And now he don't understand so what is going to happen is. He is going to get tired of you being like that and wont's to leave you. So talk to him and I mean talk and then hear what he has to say, and be leave it and then just keep datting and if you guys are still to gether at 18 and you both feel the same then as you do now then you have know reason not to make it what you both wont .or you can do this take speical times to get out with other freinds Or /and do things you have been wontting to do that he dosent really get in to and you will know soon and untill then you can and will still be able to injoy each other again
2006-12-04 00:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandy N honey first of all you might be to young to even know what Love is baby you might think that, that is love you are feeling but honey it is lust which means he is to nice to you because he wants something perhaps sex or you just don't want anything to do with him.Then again you can also be young and in love.I'm going to tell you how you know if you are in love or not.One way to tell is to know your feelings if you are feeling nausea,having an upset stomach, not being able to eat as much, heart beating really fast every time y'all come around each other then my dear you surely have found true love.And if this is what it is than honey do not let him slip through your fingers because trust if you make one mistake and you let him slip through your fingers and he go running to the next woman than trust me honey you are going to wish you hadn't messed things up. So think about what you are doing before you make the wrong decision.
2006-12-03 23:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma KI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear nothing is wrong with you, and you are not in love, you might think that you are in love since you do not really know love at this age, it is a crash.
you both are too young and have your life a head of you. Just take it easy, and try to find some other things to like beside him, something that he is not involved.
my word for you is to take it easy, and do not do anything to hurt yourself. it will be over.
You will be fine :)
2006-12-03 23:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im 17 and dating a freshman thats 14....i really like him......just make sure u 2 dont have sex...cuz u dont want 2 go through the pain that i am of prayin u arent pregnant
-ash
2006-12-03 23:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? it sounds like hormones are going nuts. a normal thing but not easy. you need to back off and take time for yourself. figure out what you feel and want. find someone you trust and respect to talk to. things will work out. be true to yourself.
2006-12-03 23:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe its just that you guy's are still teenagers and still get very cranky at times
2006-12-03 23:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by boricua cello player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt mention your age or his..very important
2006-12-03 23:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
enjoy the ride and don't do anything stupid!
2006-12-04 02:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋